A Modern Translation... Awakening the Goddess within (Part Four)  

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5/15/2005 4:27 pm

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A Modern Translation... Awakening the Goddess within (Part Four)


You have your lover writhing, and ready for more. The question is, do you now go for penetration? Or, do you spend some time licking up the love juices you have gotten to flow?

In this section we will address:

What cunnilingus is

Why it is important

What types of orgasms that can result from it

Exercises that can help increase your ability and stamina

And finally,

How to perform it flawlessly!

(The Art of the Tongue)

“Starting any cunnilingus session with indirect stimulation is essential- whether it’s the first time or the hundredth time. Her clitoris is only part of the story you’re trying to tell with that tongue of yours, and driving for her clitoris right away is likely to turn an evening of potential bacchanalia into the last evening she’ll ever let you try to go down on her.” ‒ The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus By: Violet Blue

“Your mouth can create many more sensations than any other part of your body. Ask most women, if they are being honest, they will admit that what makes them hottest and come hardest is when a man can use his tongue well.” ‒ How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure By: Lou Paget

I am sure that the first question that is on many of your minds is… what on Earth is cunnilingus? Cunnilingus is the proper term for when you are providing oral stimulation to a woman’s genital area. Some of the most common names you probably hear are… tongueing the taco, muff diving, pussy eating, cunt licking, twat diving, carpet munching, and many more!

Cunnilingus is one of the best ways to really get a woman hot and screaming for penetration. In a recent U.S. survey, entitled, Sex in America (1994), it was found that 76 percent of men between the ages of 18 and 44 reported that giving head (oral sex) to a woman was appealing. This same study also revealed that 68 percent of women between the ages of 18 and 44 found receiving oral sex appealing, but only 57 percent felt as positive about giving it. This clearly shows that a great deal of men do in fact like to lick a woman’s genitals and that a lot of women do in fact enjoy and desire to have a man or another woman licking their genitals. Like most things however, there is an okay way of doing something, a good way of doing something, and an excellent way of doing something. Here you will learn all of the tips and tricks to making a woman scream in ecstasy, each and every time you orally stimulate her.

To start things off, I think it best to address a few modern issues. These issues being that not all women are going to allow you to perform cunnilingus on them! Why would so many women claim to desire to be licked and then suddenly reject a man that wants to give them this?

A lot of women are rather insecure by nature… mostly when it comes to their physical body, I know that seems harsh to say… but we all see this more often than not. How many times have you had a woman ask you time and time again if she looks fat in something? She probably does this because she has personally been picked on in the past or because she has seen other women get picked on about it. Not only this, but we also constantly see advertisements on TV about weight loss as well as constantly seeing skinny models running around. Obviously you will eventually question yourself when you are surrounded by things reminding you to do so! Sadly enough these kinds of things also happen when it comes to a woman’s genitals. With the amount of men who crack jokes about the smell of a woman’s vagina/vulva, as well as the amount of feminine products on the market to help keep her vagina smelling clean and fresh… it can lead to some insecure thoughts. Obviously if you sit there and tell a woman that she smells like tuna, or any other type of similar comment, then she is going to back off when it comes time for this activity! The point being… watch what you say about smells or general appearances because you never truly know how something might effect someone.

It is also because of these reasons that many people consider oral sex to be more intimate then actual intercourse. When a woman allows you to go down on her she is giving you access to her personal aromas and juices. I highly doubt a woman is going to run around allowing every man she encounters to do this. During cunnilingus you get to taste her, smell her, and feel her. During intercourse you normally only get to feel her… as you notice, there is more personal things involved with oral sex.

(Still being worked on...)

Oral Exercises

Having a strong tongue is a very important part of cunnilingus. While your tongue does much of the work, your lips can also do work of their own. Here is a list of exercises that you can do periodically throughout the day to get some added strength to that tongue of yours as well as your precious lips.

Putting the story straight: Many people assume that having no teeth is only good for when a woman is performing fellatio on a man. This also has an advantage for a man when he is performing cunnilingus on a woman. Someone without teeth is not going to need oral exercises as they use their tongue every time they eat a meal. Obviously it is going to be naturally much stronger then most regular tongues. If you wear false teeth, you will probably need to do a few of these, but not all that often as you still have a slightly stronger tongue then most others.

1) Eat an ice cream cone. Focus on using long slow strokes from the base of the cone to the tip.

2) Eat Jell-O straight from one of the snack pack containers. Do not use a spoon or your fingers, try and get every bit from it by just using your tongue.

3) Hold out one of your hands as flat as possible. Lick along some of the numerous large cracks within your palm. Try this by holding your head still and just focusing on your tongue rotation. Then try it by holding your tongue out while you move your head instead of your tongue.

4) Press your tongue to the roof of your mouth and hold it. While you have it held begin to open your mouth slowly while maintaining the contact between the roof of your mouth and your tongue. Keep opening and closing your mouth 10 times before you stop.

5) A couple of times a day take a minute to run your tongue across the upper and lower sets of your teeth. Start out slowly so that you can nearly count your teeth, and move your tongue from side to side. After you have done this 5 times, increase your speed so that your tongue is flipping side to side quickly. You tongue should remain in contact with your teeth during the entire process or you should start over.

6) Press your lips together firmly, now push them out like you are about to smooch someone. After you have held it for 5 seconds, bring your lips back to your mouth and rub them together similar to how a woman would if she was putting on lipstick. Repeat this 5 to 10 times.

7) Pretend that you have peanut butter stuck to the roof of your mouth. Press the tip of your tongue firmly to the roof and stroke from as far back in your mouth as it can reach to the very front. Repeat as many times as you wish.

Pretend that you have peanut butter or marshmallow fluff stuck to the sides of your mouth and just below your lips. Use the tip of your tongue to clean it off without the help of any of your fingers. (You can actually use some peanut butter or fluff for this exercise. Obviously you wouldn’t want to do this at work though).

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