Need Anal Pointers  

Lovliness4U 45F
11 posts
5/11/2005 5:11 pm

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Need Anal Pointers

ok I'm I'm on anal. I fantasize all the tiime about a the head of a hard thick dick being pushed into my tight hole and some strong hands spreading apart my ass cheek

but the fantasy stops as the head enters. I want to have anal sex so bad I ache for it but can't get past the thought of it hurting...or finding a patient man, pointers ppl.

binny1981 36M

5/11/2005 5:48 pm

You need to find a guy who is patient first off, lol. Second have him use his finger first to lossen you up a little. You need to totally relaxe when a guy is back there. After you can relaxe just have him slowly enter you.

crlytop955 41F

5/11/2005 7:20 pm

I agree with using the finger to loosen you up, but you should go one further and use a vibrator too. It really helps to relax those muscles. Start with a small one and work your way up to one that is similar in size to your man. Also, it helps to either play with your clit yourself or have him do it while he's penetrating you.

loverman939 45M
5 posts
5/11/2005 7:43 pm

Definately have him relax you as much as possible, and also,,LOTS of lubrication. Once you get the head in gently, you're homefree...and you have a very fuck-able looking ass, so I reccommend you let someone enjoy it,,,you prbably will too.

innocent19735 45M

5/11/2005 7:58 pm

Lube it up back there and make sure they take they're gentle time! if not AW LAWD!!!! Make sure to get orally done back there too if you can

4playman4play 63M
13 posts
5/12/2005 7:38 am

Ever heard the old UK group - Frankie goes to Hollywood and their song RELAX. They are all gay and the song is about relaxing enough to have anal sex - hence it was banned, but the points the same slow, lots of lube, trust and RELAX. By the way, great picture!

chowbox2004 44M
210 posts
5/12/2005 1:19 pm

Lets start with lots of lube running down your tight ass. Then I ease a finger in first while I lick that beautiful puss.... Soon two fingers as your juices begin to mingle with the lube, slowly working them in and out of your hole. Then I'll ease the tip of my cock just inside working it with very slow circles. As you begin to loosen up I gently slide in inch by inch, while I rub your clit with my hands...I slowly rock my hips, thrusting would be too much for a first time.

Lovliness4U 45F

5/12/2005 3:54 pm

relax relax...ok but for now Im going to try this new toy I have..more to cum after I've showered and played

rod857142 39M

5/16/2005 1:15 pm

My approach was to take my time over a long period of time, just getting my ass used to the stretching. Start small, one or two fingers, stop when it feels too uncomfortable or hurts. Next day, try something bigger. Work your way up to the biggest thing you can take. The more you stretch it, the better it will feel for both of you. You'll learn to relax and control your anal muscles. Right before trying actual anal sex, check yourself for any poo-poo that might be in there, and don't be afraid to pull it out. Hygiene is crucial. If you want, you can give yourself an enema. Another idea right before anal is to grab your asshole with one or two fingers on each hand and stretch it a bit. Go slow and as far as you can go. That way, the penetration will be a lot easier and more pleasant.
Take this advice from someone who can almost fist himself.

rm_funnsocal 68M
16 posts
7/3/2005 11:43 pm

For the first time you might want to find a man with a small penis

rm_billyboy0818 68M
4 posts
8/4/2005 11:38 pm

Start out with a man performing oral sex on you and start inserting fingers [ thumb or little finger first], when u start having orgasms from this combination u r on your way

rm_billyboy0818 68M
4 posts
8/4/2005 11:39 pm

By the way, u have a beautiful ass

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