Dog Gone It  

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6/23/2006 9:09 pm

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Dog Gone It

Dogging is a British euphemism for engaging in sexual acts in a semi-public place (typically a secluded car park) or watching others doing so. Frequently, there are more than two participants; group sex and sometimes even gang bangs can occur. A popular place seems to be at the movies. Observation is encouraged, thus voyeurism and exhibitionism are closely associated with dogging. The two sets of people involved often meet either randomly or (increasingly) arrange to meet-up beforehand over the internet.

10 Commandments of Dogging

Thou shalt wear thine rubbers. Thou shalt adorn thine male organs with the finest sheaths of latex for the prevention of sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancy.

Thou shalt not fornicate before innocents. Keep thine revelries from the eyes of children and unsuspecting passersby, and refrain from disturbing the peace and attracting attention.

Thou shalt not block thine neighbor's view. Take care thou dost not obscure the sight of thy fellow dogger, and yield the right of way to them who arrived before you.

Thou shalt look with thine eyes, not with thine hands, until invited. Layest not thine hands upon a person without their explicit verbal permission.

Heed the sanctity of a woman's right to refuse. What part of "No" dost thou not understand, thou pushy bastard?

Honour thy neighbor's anonymity. Thou shalt not expose, blackmail, or otherwise compromise the privacy of thine fellow doggers.

Thou shalt not destroy public property nor trespass upon private property. The country parks, beauty spots, lovers' lanes and car parks of the land shall not be desecrated through vandalism or carelessness.

Thou shalt covet thy neighbour's wife. Thou shalt swing and make merry with thine own mate and all other consenting parties.

Thou shalt clean up after thine own self. Before thou departest, gather unto thee all of thine used condoms, torn wrappers, discarded tissues and other rubbish, and dispose of them in a bin.

Thou shalt drive safely and honor the laws, both while motoring and parking. Thou shalt not engage in reckless behaviour while in a moving vehicle, and thou shall park legally and engage the parking brake when at rest.

Dogging Sex Positions
Exhibitionist couples who are into dogging usually perform inside their cars. Working in a limited space can be challenging. Here's a guide to some standard and more creative sex positions both in and out of the car. All should rev up your engines, but your mileage may vary. Take car not to break out any windows or bust your shocks.

In the Car

Classic. Front seat, passenger side, him on top with feet on floorboards, her feet on the dashboard. Recline the seat as far as possible.
Straddle. Him in the passenger seat, her on top astride.
Backseat Mambo. Missionary across the backseat. Depending on the size of the car the woman may have to spread her legs to the sides and rest on on the floorboards. The man may have to put one leg on the floorboard or put his feet out the open window or door.
Back to Front. The woman gets astride the front seats and backs her bum and presses in into the space between the seats. She can brace herself against the seats or the dash. The man is in the back seat and fucks her doggy style.
Up and At 'Em. Woman lays across the back seat with the man on top between her legs. She plants her feet high and wide across the interior wall of the car. He kneels between her legs and pulls her pelvis up toward his. The female can use her legs to pump her pelvis in this position. Alternately, if there is room, she can hook her legs over his shoulders.
Reverse Buckaroo. The man sits in the middle of the backseat with his legs spread. The woman gets on his lap facing the front of the car, leaning forward between the front seats, and rides his cock. The woman can grasp the front seats to get leverage in this position. The man can also sit with his legs straight out between the front seats with the woman straddling his lap, although this is more awkward.
On the Car

On the Hood. The woman lies back on the hood of the car and scoots her bottom towards the edge. She can rest her feet on the bumper or the grille. The man stands in front between her legs and leans on the hood as he fucks her.
Wraparound. Same as above, but upright, with the woman sitting on the hood. She wraps her legs around the man's waist and supports herself with her arms, leaning back.
Wheelbarrow. The woman lays her upper body face down on the hood. The man lifts her legs up and holds them spread apart as he fucks her from behind.
The Bridge. The woman lays back on the hood with the male standing in front between her legs. She lifts her legs so that she can hook the back of her heels over her partner's shoulders. The woman tilts her pelvis up into position while the man supports her lower back with his hands.
Over the Top. For when you really want to put on a show. The woman climbs up on top of the hood on all fours, with her rear facing the front of the car. She leans on the roof of the car to support her upper body. The man kneels on the hood behind her and fucks her doggy style. Take care not to break the windscreen.

Positions for Oral

Left to Right. The basic front seat blowjob. The woman leans across and sucks the man.
Front and Center. The man kneels straddling the front seats with his cock sticking through the space between the seats. The woman sits in back and blows him.
Wheelbarrow. The woman lays her upper body face down on the hood. The man lifts her legs up and holds them spread apart as he fucks her from behind.
69. Both partners are in the backseat, the woman laying across the seat with legs open and the man on all fours over her in the 69 position.
Open Door. With the door open, either the man or woman sits in the car seat facing outward while their partner kneels outside the car and goes down on them.

Dogging Etiquette and Safety
Safe Sex and Dogging

Always use condoms. Buy a large box or roll and bring extras to share with whomever shows up.
Remember that just because someone looks clean, that doesn't mean they may not have an STD.
If a woman's partner isn't using a condom with her, that's all the more reason you should.
Lube will make everyone more comfortable. Single-use packets are available and you can hand them out with condoms.
For women, take things slow and know your limits. Don't be shy about telling a bloke to back off if he goes too far.
For couples, talk to your partner ahead of time about what you plan to do and what the ground rules will be. Have a signal or safe word to give each other if you need to end the scene.
Personal Safety

Use caution and common sense when meeting strangers on the Internet. Don't give out any personal information.
Arrange meetings in locales that are away from the eyes of the public, but not so far out of the way that you can't get aid quickly if you need it.
Be familiar with the meeting location. Make sure there are at least two exits from the area and know where they are.
Protect your identity and privacy by adopting a "swinging name" and creating an alternate persona for dogging.
Females should always bring a male partner or companion to a dogging meet. Make sure it's someone you trust to protect your interests.
Avoid getting ambushed or mobbed. Don't announce the exact time and place of a dogging meet on an online bulletin board or forum. Broadcast your interest, then have individuals contact you for specifics on where and when.
Steer clear of seedy areas where activities like prostitution or drug dealing may be taking place.
Secure your valuables (cell phone, wallet, handbag, etc.) in the glove box or lock them up in the boot while you're occupied. Keep your car keys on your person at all times.
When leaving, drive around a bit or stop for a bite on the way home to make sure you're not being followed.
Tips for Newbies

Check out the boards. Visit some online dogging communities or forums and see what is going on.
Ask questions. A lot of experienced doggers are willing to be helpful if you're sincere and polite. Pay no mind to the jerks.
Whenever you're meeting people over the Internet, use caution and common sense. Don't be taken advantage of.
Try to buddy up with a veteran dogger online and have them show you the ropes.
Remember that many dogging locations are also used by gay men for meetings, and usually they have been using them longer than heteros. We can all get along.
It may take a few tries to find what you're looking for, so if at first you don't succeed....
For Players and Displayers

Talk to your partner before the session, and discuss what you expect and want to happen. Decide what you will and won't do, whether you'll invite others to join in, and how you'll decide who you play with.
Be punctual. Show up where you say you'll be, when you say you'll be there. Don't count on folks hanging around waiting for you, especially someplace out of the way.
Give accurate directions to the site when arranging meetings. Give an identifier (e.g., the make of your car) if you feel comfortable doing so.
Bring what you need for safe sex and clean up (condoms, lube, wet wipes). Assemble a kit to keep in the car. See our Dogging Shopping List.
Give clear signals. Flash your lights or leave the inside light on to invite voyeurs. Roll the windows down if you want them to get closer or join in.
Don't be reckless. Dogging is a legal grey area. If someone complains, you may get in trouble, so have some discretion in your behavior and choice of location.
Show your enthusiasm. The more you get into it, the more your audience will enjoy the show, the more you'll enjoy performing. Everyone gets off.
Know your limits. If a spectator is getting too pushy, tell them to back off. If you or your partner get uncomfortable and need to end the session, don't hesitate to pack it in.
End on a high note. Finish up with a bang and when the show is over, let the audience know. Thank them for coming (no pun intended) and make your exit.
Hook up again. If you meet someone you really like, exchange emails or cell numbers so you can contact them for future sessions
Keep it clean. Properly dispose of all condoms, tissues, wrappers, etc. when you're finished.
Rules for Watchers

Clean up first. Dirty appearance and smell is a turn-off, so if you plan on joining in with a couple, make yourself presentable
Don't sneak up on unsuspecting folks. Not every parked couple is looking for attention, so approach with caution.
Let them warm up. Don't rush over to a couple as soon as they arrive; it makes it hard for them to get started. Wait till the action begins a bit.
Watch for signals. A flash of the interior light means they want to be watched. A rolled down window is an invitation to get closer and maybe touch. But make sure the couple is actually dogging; they may have just dropped the keys on the floorboard or need fresh air.
Keep your distance till invited. Don't join in unless the couple asks you to.
Be appreciative but respectful. No hooting, catcalling, or yelling, "Show us your tits!"
Don't heckle. If you're not enjoying the scene, then leave. Don't yell at the couples or throw stones.
Leave if you're asked to. If the couple wants their privacy, don't make an issue of it. Find another spot.
Don't butt in on another dogger in action. One dogger's luck isn't an open invite to all. Also, it may be a private tryst.
Mind your headlamps. Use your lights as needed to drive safely, but don't keep the brights on once you reach a scene.
Don't drive around and around car parks aimlessly looking for action. Know where you're going, and when you get there, have some patience. The action doesn't always start on cue.
Be a good neighbor. Don't block another dogger's view or box in their car.
Pick up your trash. Don't leave behind condoms, tissues, wrappers or other rubbish.
Move along. Once the show is over, don't loiter.
Dogging Shopping List

Going dogging requires some preparation. Here are some of our picks for the most important things to bring along:

Condoms, condoms, condoms

Obviously, if you're going to play safe, you need condoms. Especially if you're going to let others join in the fun, it's an absolute must to have plenty of condoms at-the-ready. You can't count on people bringing their own. You may want to bring a variety of types and sizes so people can choose the condom most comfortable for them. After all, no telling who will show up, and you need to be ready for anything.

You should also bring some latex surgeon's gloves. If there's going to be any internal, or even external, touching involved, latex gloves will protect both parties. Dental dams (some people substitute plastic wrap) offer protection during oral play.


Lube It Up

Plenty of lube is essential to keep your dogging session going like a well-oiled machine. You probably already know that you should use water-based lubes like Astroglide and KY-Jelly, as oil-based lubes can degrade latex condoms. However, you may not realize that lube is available, not just in tubes, but also in single-use packets. Just hand out a little lube packet when you give out the condom, a perfect pair.


Now I Lay Me Down

It may seem exciting to have sex on the ground, on a picnic table, or on the hood of your car. However, you'll have a quick bit of harsh reality once you realize just how uncomfortable that can be. Rock on the floor, the hard metal of a car, or splinters on a picnic table can ruin a dogging session. So, come prepared. Bring a blanket to lie on, a pillow to rest your head, and anything else you think you might need for comfort. We've heard of some dogging enthusiasts who even bring their own air mattress to the fun. A little thought to physical comfort will go a long way to making it a fun experience.


See What's Going On

You should have at least one flashlight at the ready, along with extra batteries, before the fun begins. In terms of safety and simple efficiency, you need to be able to see what's going on, especially if it's a dark or secluded area.


Clean Up Time

Dogging can be a very messy activity. To keep things clean and sanitary, you should have plenty of baby wipes, paper towels, and tissues close at hand. Encourage your newfound friends to wipe before the fun starts, you can even give them a little Purel-style sanitizing gel to disinfect their hands.


Environmentally Friendly

When your dogging session is done, make sure to leave the location as clean as when you found it. Bring plastic bags, and throw away EVERYTHING, condoms, condom wrappers, baby wipes, etc. Your flashlight will come in handy here too. It's your responsibility to the dogging community to do this; dogging should be fun for those involved and not a burden on others. Either dispose of the plastic bag in a proper receptacle at the dogging location or take it home and throw it out there.

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