Strange attitudes  

rm_LoveLord01 47M
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4/11/2006 12:46 pm

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Strange attitudes

Every once in awhile, I will see a woman put in her profile that she is married and looking. Her husband may not know about her being on here and she is clearly looking for a guy, but what really makes me wonder the most about that is she will say something like "NO MARRIED MEN". She of course has that right, but what makes her any better then a guy that is married also. Wouldnt you think that if that was the situation that a married guy be better recieved. His dick still works the same. LOL! Personally and i know from personal experence that its more dangerous for a guy to see a married woman than the opposit in MHO. (I admit I have seen a few married women) I mean in the long and short of it and I have seen this as a trend but maybe its just me that men that are married men that are looking are often treated as scum and married women that are looking are treated as if they just won the lottery and everyone is rushing to give them the first prize. I can think of a several different reasons both positive and negative for not wanting to get into that situation but over all, if either are careful and discreet, whats wrong with that. Nothing that I can see. Some would say that they are doing the moral thing with respect to that, but once again IT'S A SEX SITE!! If you really have a problem with morals of married people seeing some one other than their spouse (Hmmmm "SPOUSE' sounds like an animal that surries around the kitchen that the cat should be chasing) and your morrals are getting in the way and keeping you from hooking up and having a good time, then you shouldn't even be here!

I said it before I'll say it again. IT'S A SEX SITE PEOPLE!!!

Thats what really makes me wonder.

SlimGoodGuy 39M

4/11/2006 2:06 pm

One of life's lessons men learn early on:
It's always our fault, never hers.

He cheats, he's wrong. She cheats, it's his fault.

What I would love to know is which gender S.O. handles it better?

Now, I feel I must respond to this "it's a sex site" comment. More members out there are really looking for long term relationships than you think. They want more than just sex. If you weed out all of the members looking for love, very few members are looking for just sex and a good time. As for morals, cheating is one thing and we know it will end bad. Open relationships are much more in tune with the theme of this site than extramarital affairs.

Ask any member involved in group sex and the swinging lifestyle. If one person doesn't communicate something to the group, bad things happen. Honest communication and morality works in the swinging world, so by the same token, there should be no exception in other instances. It should still work. If you're gonna lie, you're gonna have a bad time. Eventually, people hit the wall going 100mph. If you are hiding your true self, you have bigger problems than sex to sort out.
We're not here to judge, but there are moments when people need to wake up and smell the coffee.

PineyFolks 60M/60F

4/11/2006 1:37 pm

HUMMMM it made me think. Good post.


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