Letting go,  

Lookin4sure69 48F
10 posts
7/1/2006 9:18 am

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9/6/2006 5:45 pm

Letting go,

Just trying to make sense of this thing called love... is this love?, was this love, and why does it hurt so bad.. what does unconditional love mean to you? Any thought?

workingharder4u 52M

7/1/2006 9:46 am

Unconditional......wow that's a tough one. Hard to find that in a relationship on both sides. I think if you have someone that loves you unconditionally you have something very special and you should respect that and them. Enjoy and appreciate it. BUT, I think if you love someone unconditionally, WOW, you really have something. I have loved unconditionally and it is wonderful. Sure your a little blind and a touch crazy but thats what it's all about. Putting yourself out there with and for others. Thats what makes it hurt....you give it all you have. You give all you have to another and it touches you in everyway. It is a big loss anytime you have that and you lose a handle to that and that person. It only makes sense that it hurts.
BUT MAN CAN IT HURT. I understand your questions and hope you all the best, just realize your never alone.
Respectfully, Aaron

Lookin4sure69 replies on 7/1/2006 10:14 am:
Damn, you said it all. Sounds like were on the same page here, I agree with you 100%.

adbacula 38M

7/1/2006 10:05 am

Unconditional love. What it means to me?

You accept that person as they are. You don't expect them to change in some way to make your life better. The best way I've heard it put... "It's when you find someone whose faults you can live with."

Kasi5690 42F
1 post
7/1/2006 10:31 am

Hi I am first time post my comment in this web. I visit this web because after my nephew borrowed my computer, some photo which "scary" to me suddenly "pop out " from the screen. He told me somebody sent something to him and he did not know whats the content inside. Of course I know, he was not telling the true.

He is 16 years old and I think he is looking for something. I love him I told him but I angry that he was not sincere on what he did. Those picture "pop out" when I open a web infront of many people, I really angry that he just shown like he was innocent. I forgive him now, because he is just a teenager, but I told him, sincere is very important for our relationship because we hope we can trust each other.

Love for me is very important that support me to survive, survive not only food is enough, has a room to live but we also recognize our soul.

No body can give unconditional love because we just human. But love really an energy it come from sincere and trust.

I am not good in English but I tried my best. Nice to visit your blog.

rm_vlt721 30M

7/1/2006 10:34 am

if your willing to take five bluuets in the face for him.... and survive knowing you'd look like a horrible piece of crap for the rest of your life... thats love..

rm_magnet4u22 50F
18406 posts
7/1/2006 10:56 am

It doesn't help to say been there, done that....even though we all have. We'd all be happy and rich if we knew the answer to that question! I think both guys said it well, and a lot don't even realize it.... that unconditional love where you want what is best for the other person, even if it doesn't include you....is what hurts the most. The one that you can't wait to see, and be with, even after time goes by seems to be the real thing and if both feel it, then that's a keeper.


aski456 58M
1 post
7/4/2006 9:37 am

In real love you want the other person's good. In romantic love you want the other person. ~ Margaret Anderson

rm_sandmann72 45M
8 posts
7/9/2006 1:50 pm

falling in love = looking at all the positve qualities.. and ignoring the negative (love is blind).. unconditional love = continuing to look at only positve things about that person.. even when some negatives become apparent..

rm_Damoto669 46M

7/18/2006 6:40 pm

Love Unconditional -- A bond between two people that love eachother faults and all. No words, could sway the feelings shared between these two. Is it possible? Sure, but Trust, compassion and understanding must be in place before love can truely be unconditional.

budha444 57M
1 post
8/30/2006 3:06 pm

no such thing unless it is with a infant. only life gives uncomditionally, the breath is free and that which gives it unconditionally

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