Too much or too little?  

Linha28 39F
151 posts
7/31/2006 4:57 pm

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12/31/2006 8:42 pm

Too much or too little?

I was just thinking...why is it when you pay a guy "too much" attention they say you are falling for them but if you pay them too little attention then they think you are mean or a bitch? I just think it's interesting. I've found the comments of one of the people who have posted on my blog very helpful. She said that basically I don't have to live up to anyone's expectation. I think we all know that is factual but how many of us actually practice it? For so long I tried to please everyone else and I always worried right before meeting someone that they wouldn't like me but funny enough I never stopped to think that I may not like them. It's the little common sense things that seem to pass us by without a second look but yet we spend hours fixated on bullshit. Me, I'm the type where if you don't call me then I won't call you...sounds a little childish but I just don't like to bother anyone. I always figure if you want to talk to me then you'd dial my number. Like today, I learned for the first time what a "creampie" was and for a few minutes I was searching the web looking at different videos which of course made me a bit horny. But I don't have anyone to call upon to help me out and maybe try out this "creampie" thing. It's risky because you never know where some of these people have been or who/what they've been sticking their stuff into. I guess I'd have to be very familiar with the person because I'm not willing to die just to try a creampie.

I melt in your mouth and your hands ~Linha

Blue_eyes_smile 43F

7/31/2006 6:07 pm

I know how you feel. I've had guys give me their phone number and tell me to call at anytime, I call they dont bother to answer or call back. I've even had the same person in the past tell me after I e-mailed them, that I was getting them to close for comfort, hell I was just saying Hi.

I've noticed that most of the younger men on this site play mind games, its very easy to get yourself involved in them, until one day it dawns on you why are you playing their games? Be your own self, you are who you are, cant change for anyone else. Dont be anyone elses puppet, because it can make your life

As for cream pies, I have had one done on me or in interesting if your into stuff like that

Hope I didnt make your eyes glaze over from boredom lol..

Linha28 39F

7/31/2006 6:47 pm

Thanks for the post Blue eyes, you didn't bore me with your post. I totally agree with your post...I tried to please everyone and I changed my personality and still was treated poorly and I betrayed myself by changing for someone else. But those days are long gone I'm happy to say.

I melt in your mouth and your hands ~Linha

T_A_B_75 43M

8/1/2006 8:24 am

As a guy I'm better off because I get very few responses on my blogs and even less e-mails. Thanks by the way, now I understand.

shar1k 50M
15 posts
8/4/2006 1:09 pm

great question- I think you just need to be yourself and it should work out for you because you seem to be a caring and sensitive person. I think most guys seek attention even if they act like the dont care and with your beauty if you dont asnwer them,(because they feel entitled to an answer) then the make it your fault because they cant handle the rejection of maybe you are not interested in them. Hope this helps.

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