~~First Meeting~~  

Linds1957 60F
14777 posts
2/15/2006 9:40 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

~~First Meeting~~

We talked online.. for months...

We smiled.. off cam and on cam...

We talked with microphone and speakers on the computer.

We tried to meet before....

Should I go see him, if only to say Hi.. I'm so glad to finally meet you?

I have no expectations of anything much happenning at the first meeting..
maybe a touch here, or a touch there...a hug...

Hugs are nice...

JustExploring96 49M

2/16/2006 12:59 am

Every relationship, no matter how that relationship is defined, starts with that first meeting. If you believe you have a bond or the potential to build on what you have shared to develop something, whatever that is then it is worth taking that chance to see where it will go.

Meet them, for they may add a whole new depth of wonder and joy to your life.

Linds1957 60F

2/16/2006 7:24 am

I agree with you.. Just...

JustExploring96 49M

2/16/2006 9:47 pm

It is a philosophy I picked up after watching people talk themselves out of meeting people with one reason or another with the end result being that they would cancel out or not even attempt to meet the person they were interested in.

I realize putting oneself out there risks rejection and the possibility that they may say no or not return the interest but by talking oneself out of taking action, I've always believed that not only is a person guaranteeing the answer as being no but to a small degree that person is also rejecting themselves as not being worthy enough of having a potentially rewarding relationship.

Linds1957 60F

2/17/2006 10:05 am

yup, you're exactly right...

ps..i did meet him.. we had a great time..

JustExploring96 49M

2/18/2006 12:27 am


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