Stellar Familiar Sex  

Linds1957 60F
14777 posts
8/31/2006 7:39 am

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9/4/2006 6:56 am

Stellar Familiar Sex

It Rained..For those still harvesting, it's not great.. but for the rest of us.. woohooooooooo...
Maybe there will be fewer fires now.

When someone really knows your body...I mean.. REALLY knows your body, you can have the best sex ever..There's something to be said for "ole familiar sex.." Sure you might be bored with each other, and might think "Oh no, it's you again"...

I heard someone say, women in their 40's are at their sexual peak and they want to have lots of sex. So then they look over at their sleeping partner in bed, and say, "well, I want to have lots of sex with anyone else but you"...
That's nasty, just plain nasty...

That's a problem. Cuz, she wants to have sex, but not sex with her partner in life..

I don't totally have the solution for that. Cuz if you're mad at your partner, you're not about to have sex with your partner. But you don't necessarily want to run out and find someone new because it's not going to be as good sex as you're used to. On the other hand, it might be way better sex than you're used to, but you're being unfaithful to your partner. And you might come home with an STD, which is never good.

So then, partners need to either work out their differences, be unfaithful, or totally go their separate ways..I guess it's a choice everyone makes at some point.

Back to familiar sex..It's not so bad.. It can be awesome..It can be fun if the people involved work on it...and that kind of work is fun, right?

Have a great day!!

rm_RingOtaku 36M
241 posts
8/31/2006 10:27 am

I haven't had nearly enough sex with any one person to comment on this. except to say yeah take it easy and choose carefully. Me? I'm all good.

Linds1957 60F

8/31/2006 11:30 am

RingO.. you're awesome!

Sensual.. i'm full of joy today.. it's going to be a good day!

slowhand208 66M
609 posts
8/31/2006 5:29 pm

Ok Linds here goes,getting some strange sex is very exciting until you climax.Then it becomes a guilty pleasure.Familiar sex-well if you indeed work at it(practise makes perfect)and can stay away from conflicts outside the bedroom,then it can be the most rewarding.Myself,it's been a long time since I've had electric sex on an ongoing situation.Maybe it's only me but what are we all here for?

Linds1957 60F

8/31/2006 6:38 pm

slowhand.. I think we're lonely.. bored.. tired of the ordinary.. and want to make our lives more fun...And some of us need little pats on the back to keep us happy...

chas4037 69M
4119 posts
8/31/2006 6:45 pm

I was married for 30+ years, so I'll claim some expertise on the ONE PARTNER side of the discussion. YES, you can get to where you know exactly what to do to excite (just like you know just what buttons to push to get each other all pissed off) and to bring to orgasim. And I'd guess that most couples don't do the 100% full court everything lovemaking every night too, so it is not like you follow the same script each and every time. (we did not) The sex right up till the end of the marriage was great. The rest of the communication got to where it did not exist; at that point, the sex died too.

Since the divorce, I've been with a small handful of women, some only a few times, two for over a year each. One year is not long enough to know each and every tiny detail of what works and what doesn't work. But the continued exploration sure is fun.


Linds1957 60F

9/1/2006 7:13 am

Chas...I guess when the communication goes, that's the important part...

Sweet.. what about when the sex is there.. but everything else isnt???
People on here constantly say they get no sex at home.. but what if that's all there is.. and the rest of the marriage is crap??

You're right though, most people would rather live in a loving home with a good relationship.

PrincessKarma 45F
6188 posts
9/1/2006 6:30 pm

Best sex I've ever had was in the second year with the XBF... we had come to know each other's body so well that if we wanted to we could reach orgasm in about 5 minutes...

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma

Linds1957 60F

9/2/2006 7:24 am

Wow PK..
How are you?.. It's good to see you again...

Linds1957 60F

9/4/2006 6:56 am cartoon gave me a chuckle...

I think I want sex, and a good relationship.. is that too much to ask..


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