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7/5/2006 9:12 am

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7/10/2006 8:08 am


Why is it that a man thinks that if a woman just touches his penis that the nervousness of meeting for the first time would just go away? Maybe for some but not for me. You tell a guy that you are nervous, and are straight forward that on the first meeting that you would like it to be just for drinks. I also tell them that depending on how it goes there could be more, but I NEVER promise anything. Am I doing something wrong? Can someone help me out with this?

Edge357 53M
389 posts
7/5/2006 3:00 pm

Oh, wow. I never thought of the "touch my penis so we can relax" line. And now that you have blabbed it all over blogland, I won't be able to use it at all. Darn.

Some men are such smooooth operators. But there you go being so sweet and real. What is to be done with you?

Your pal

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7/6/2006 4:06 am

Am I wrong for thinking that two people that want to have a sexual relationship should have something in common? Maybe I'm doing this the wrong way, but I'm not into just jumping in bed with anyone. If I wanted to do that I would visit the local bar. Maybe I expect too much.

dimplesfouryou 47F
24690 posts
7/6/2006 9:07 am

Absolutely not! You do NOT expect too much! YOU set the rules here, so don't let any man tell you what to do! I think I would just leave the part about "telling them that depending on how it goes there could be more" out from your conversations. It can go unsaid. If you meet and you feel the connection, then it can be discussed, but remember YOU control the pace.

Also, I agree that I, personally, need something in common before I can sleep with someone. I have to have a comfort level in the person and I have to feel safe. I like to get to know someone first through chats and emails before we talk on the phone and then eventually meet. I've been lucky so far, and I wish you the same!


playtime44uandi 54M
6545 posts
7/7/2006 2:40 pm

There is no way your asking to much! You used a key word that discribes wha you want. A relationship. there is nothing wrong with that at all. Many poeple here are looking for relationships. Various types of them but a relationship non the less. & that does requite some common interests.
I'm the same way, I want someone to have more then just sex with.

Many people here think that this place is only for sex. But its not just for that. there are people here that do nothing but blog. Others are looking for that one in a million person, but might want to have some fun & make friends along the way. To me thats what this & any "singles site" is about.

~We'll Leave The Light On~

SirMounts 103M

7/7/2006 8:23 pm

Well, there is absolutely nothing wrong with doing only what you feel comfortable with.
A warm welcome to blogging, Letsjustdoit. *smiling*

rm_mk1867 59M
60 posts
7/8/2006 9:18 am

When we meet just shake my penis instead of my hand - just kidding.
I always expect first meetings to be for dinner or drinks.


7/9/2006 6:43 am

And is that not how it should be? Oh well my luck. Thanks for agreeing that I'm not to off by wanting a little respect.

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