Couples Suck!!!!  

LeggySuccubus 40F
42 posts
1/24/2006 10:53 am

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3/6/2006 8:23 am

Couples Suck!!!!

Ya know I've been talkin to this couple in Swansboro. She was interested, as was he. But, I told them several times, when im interested in a couple, my interest is only in the female, not in the male. I can get men any time. She and I seemed to be on the same page with that, when it was just me and her talking. When he popped up, things always changed. He wanted in on the action, and I told him repeatedly I wasnt interested in being with him, just her. He needed to understand my lil saying. Im not everyones type and am ok with it. Others need to understand the same. He was welcome to be here and even watch, take pics, vid, etc, just as my husband would be. So the safety issue with him being here for her as well, I understood. She said she understood me not wanting to be with him too, and was fine with it, didnt take offense to it. She claimed she wanted the same thing. He kept saying he wanted to be with me as well. Again I told him no. All of a sudden when I wouldnt send him pictures of me. What he called "freaky" pictures, they disappeared. He claimed she was there as well, she wasnt because I had sent HER pictures earlier that day. He didnt know what I had sent her. I should have expected it, he was young and immature, he's only 24.
See my husband and I have been together for 10 years, married almost 9. He's 33 and actually mature, he had his fun BEFORE we met. So he's past all the bullshit of trying to manipulate his way in when im trying to meet another woman. Apparently we are rare. I play, he's cool with it, and always here for my safety. He isn't interested in being with another woman, OR MAN for that matter. It really sucks when the man has to fuck up something for spite because he cant get in on the action too. Maybe one day I can meet a couple who are mature in their actions, secure,honest, and actually decent lookin. And the male of the couple wont fuck anything up. Yeah I may seem a lil more pissed off than normal, I guess I am. Cause she was actually what she said she was. Im beginning to like men who are a couple less and less. Why cant ppl understand my situation and be cool with it. Why cant couples that supposedly play and have an understanding of their own, stick to the rules, instead of changing them at every turn. My rules dont change, they are enforced from beginning to end. They never change. Well, im going back to my previous opinion of finding a cool couple, when hell freezes over and pigs fuckin fly, I might find one. LMAO.

rm_teddybeartaz 42M

2/14/2006 11:01 am

i'm a male and agree with your comments, what you want should be respected, no matter what.

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