What do you think of women who masturbate regularly?  

LeEnchantress 56F
152 posts
7/11/2006 3:40 am

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10/14/2006 10:13 am

What do you think of women who masturbate regularly?

I recently met someone from this site and we were talking about "stuff".
We are just friends but like to chit chat about different things. I happened to mention I had been so busy lately.. that I hadn't had time to masturbate even! LOL
He seemed very shocked to hear this was something I did regularly.. duh....
What's up with that? It's okay for guys to jerk off but girls are prohibitted with pleasing themselves.
When I asked him why he was surprised.. he said I didn't seem like "that kind of woman"!
WTF... am I a slut now cuz i want an orgasm??? Mind you... this site does NOT have an abundance of attractive single guys in my area....
When I asked him why he found that objectionable, he responded that he thought that women would prefer "the real thing" instead.
Well gezz... that seems pretty odd.. if you don't have time for a relationship.. guys are going to consider you weird cuz you want to get yourself off.
Are there other men out there that think like that too?
Very weird.. I love masturbating.. always have... it's also good for you and helps you to be able to show your partner what pleases you...
So men.. do you feel women who masturbate regularly are somehow "odd"?
This is a new one on me...
I sure don't want to date someone who's got that narrow minded opinion about women. Is this a general feeling among most men.. or just this guy's hangup?

rm_CoolRahul80 37M
1 post
7/11/2006 4:22 am

oooooh......... hey guy........ women too mastrubate....... it is their presonal choice........it is one of mmeans of having more fun........

AuraePoriaWoozy 54M
1 post
7/24/2006 9:36 am

Sounds like he's more than a little narrow minded. Masterbation is healthy and perfectly acceptible, be it a man or a woman. But I wouldn't be surprised if you run across others, of both sexes, who have a similar attitude as that guy did. Alot of it has to do with being raised to assocaiate sex with being dirty. Having been to other palces, it amazes me how unhealthy and puritan our nation still is when it comes to all things sexual...

suchaflirt101 60M

10/16/2006 1:05 pm

Loved this blog! My ex thought it was something evil to touch herself and when I told her how I thought it was a turn on, she told me I was perverted and wanted to know how often I did. I felt like Jack Nicholson in A Few Good Men. "You can't handle the truth". I asked her what she would rather me do at 5 in the morning when I woke up with a woodie. Wake her up or take care of business in the shower. LOL. You can guess what her answer was. I married her anyway and lived to regret it.

Mister_Blue666 35M

11/12/2006 9:04 am

I had an ex who only masturbated once or twice a month, according to her. When she asked me how often I did I told her everyday (on average). She seemed surprised, but then again so did I cause I figured women had just as high a sex drive as men. Everybody is different and there are some crazy ideas out there...though you can slap around the people who have them...from what I've heard...cause I wouldn't C'est bon?

nineplusD 68M

11/14/2006 9:01 am

One of the things I ask is "do you masturbate, and how often?" I feel that if a woman is so repressed that she 1) doesn't or 2) won't admit it, then she is to repressed to get involved with me.

FlukyPrismScoff 53M
20 posts
11/28/2006 1:02 am

Nothing wrong with masturbating, Better than going out an having sex with just anyone for pleasure, An I also agree its a great way to show your partner what does it for you. A lot of time an auquarness can be spent learning a partners wants an desires, Always great to know what your partner likes when it comes to foreplay.

rm_scorp_rules 49M

11/28/2006 6:08 pm

ITs OK for ladies to masturbate. If they let me watch its even better!

adultpartyinwnc 52M

12/4/2006 8:33 am

personal i think it its fine, hell its your toy you can play withit
if you want to lol,ha i masterbate regularly why not its feels good,
it doesnt hurt anyone plus its a good stress relief
my motto: JUST DO IT

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