Would You  

Ladywithatti2d 77F  
385 posts
2/25/2006 6:14 pm

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3/25/2006 2:51 am

Would You

Would you recognize yourself, if you joined AdultFriendFinder, and surfed thru profiles and read your own?

Would you recognize yourself, if you read posts in the magazine section you have answered, or asked?

Could you truthfully say if someone handed you an email sent to a lady, you would know it was yours by the content? Or would you write something you "think" they want to hear. Something you "think" makes you sound like a he man, hot and sexy.

Would you behave in public, in a bar, a restaurant or out on the street with the same behavior, words, and actions that you display here?

If the answer to any of these is NO, maybe you should ask yourself WHY?????

Perhaps you joined here, and left your brains, and manners outside the door. There are real people here, with real feelings. Did you actually have manners before you joined and what was it that made you think you could just forget all of that because this is the type of site everyone believes it to be. A SEX SITE. It does not say IGNORANCE, CRUDENESS, RUDENESS ACCEPTABLE.

Even if this was just a sex site, do you really believe for one minute the crude approach that you make is going to be attractive to anyone?? Who are you trying to impress? It certainly does not impress anyone who reads the same boring crap over and over.

OH I love sex, ( who don't especially if they are here) OH I can go for hours and hours. ( do you never need a lunch break, potty break?) I am well hung!!! ( never read a male profile here that wasn't!!). I am handsome, cute, adorable (your mothers opinion does not count)

Then you have 3 pictures posted of nothing but your penis. Do you think ladies walk into a restaurant and look for a penis?? OR, wow what a penis, and an appearance like a junk yard dog. Uhh sorry, no attraction even if you did borrow Adonis penis for the pictures.

If you have a wife, daughters, or sisters, the way you talk to women here, is that the way you would want ANY male to talk to THEM??? Would you think it was acceptable, cute, macho if a stranger walked up to your daughter and told her, hey babe, great boobs!! only using a far cruder word, if she was just wearing a bathing suit?? If now then WHY do you say those things as an opening line to women here?

Many times I have read in the magazine section men answering others questions telling them how "man they would MAKE that woman do this or that". Or in their profile how they would "slap that ass. Pull that hair. Ram that ass". Uhhh since when is violence sexy??? It isn't your place to MAKE anyone DO anything. It is suppose to be MUTUAL, you know something BOTH parties want and enjoy not ONE.

Before you send out an email, to someone, stop and remember they are REAL and they do have brains and emotions. If YOU come across as a Neandrathal, insulting, or rude, you can definitely expect to get a flame email right back and blocked.

Originality, that is the key. You have to be very interesting, and original when you send that email. Something that is going to tweak their interest and make them want to know more about you. You most DEFINITELY, need to have read their profile, if it says NO ****** that is exactly what they mean, such as NO MARRIED. Save your effort. No means NO.

If you live 3,000 miles away, where is the reality in sending out emails of wanna meet. Are YOU going to pay for airline tickets?? transportation??? how often you gonna make that trip??? kindly explain what the "benefits" are of someone that is in a foreign country and contacting them??

As I said, remember there are REAL PEOPLE here, with lives, hearts, and emotions. Treat them as you would like to be treated, with respect.


haversack_smith 41M
6192 posts
3/8/2006 3:43 pm

We should teach romance in shools. Seriously. I know it sounds a dumb idea, but I remember schooldays of learning how rivers meander, making salt, disecting frogs eyes, pythagorous, pie-arr-squared, what tea-towels are made of and reading the book of Jonah. I can't believe a couple of hours couldn't have been chopped out of that to teach kids the basics of how to approach the opposite sex. After all, it's a life-skill that everyone will need when they grow up.

That and map-reading.

rdy2try4 52F  
3133 posts
3/24/2006 5:38 pm

My favorite..."I read your profile..I loved it!" or some derivative of it. When all you need do is look. Uh..you loved that I said NO MARRIED MEN and you are married. I guess it doesn't apply to you. NO out of state for ANY reason...and you are 2000 miles away. Again, you loved it but it doesn't apply to you. My theory, if you ignore a profile you will ignore me. A selfish person will only take care of themselves. Why on Earth would I want that person around me so HE can get off and I am left sitting?? NOT on your life!!

Can't say it enough...READ THE PROFILES...especially if you are saying you did. WE DO KNOW if you did or not!!

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