Anal would ya?  

Ladywithatti2d 77F  
383 posts
4/13/2006 12:20 pm

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Anal would ya?

I just participated in a very interesting poll, that was asked by 1sweetbitch. That one was on Oral. It got me to thinking, after reading the results about asking this question.

How many of you MEN, who love anal, can't live without it, think its simply GREAT, would be willing to have anal performed on them.

I do realize there are some men who are Bi, or simply prefer men, this question is not for them. This is aimed squarely at the heterosexuals that I keep reading this question in the mag and elswhere.




Come on guys, you seem to love giving anal, but how many of YOU would be willing to have anal done to you first.

Tried it, hate it
It's no big deal
Yes, I would bend over and go fot it.

sexymamma662003 32F

4/13/2006 12:45 pm

i bet 90% of the answers are hell no. cant wait to see the results


Ladywithatti2d 77F  
495 posts
4/13/2006 2:26 pm

LOL sure it counts.!! anything foreign going in that direction would have to count.

It does make me wonder tho, just how you would view, not just a butt plug, but a lady with a dildo, working you over.

My question now to you would be, Does that count and would you still do it.


rdy2try4 52F  
3129 posts
4/13/2006 3:40 pm

Waiting for the results also. I can't say how many I asked that said their ass was totally off limits but they wanted to drill any ass they could get. A double standard for sure. hehehehe

MyHeartLost4U 53M
2304 posts
4/14/2006 3:23 am

Ok I voted here, butt (no pun intended; yea right lol) I do have something to add to my vote here and to the Q. I believe Rdy might remember over a year ago I asked for a little advice on Anal Sex in the Advice Lines. So here is a little update on that.

Now, I have never totally experienced anal sex nor am I really curious about it or ever want anything going into my anal canal either; however, my girlfriend is curious about it (she being penetrated that is) and we have discussed it and we both agreed to give it a try (hey I want to please my g/f both mentally and sexually) and a few times we have tried and stopped. Why; because she showed signs of it being painful for her. I am the only man she has ever fully trusted in having sex with (and the same goes in reverse for me with her) and is why we even went that far or her letting me know of her curiosity with being anally penetrated. How far did she and I get? About 1" of my penis with lubrication and all (her being relaxed) inserted. Now I do not know if that can be considered as having anal sex or not, and is not important, and yes she (my g/f) wants to continue trying; thus, the decision we made together is all of her decision on how far we go with it, and if she say she does not want to try any further, then I will not push her either. Bottom line is, it is her body, not mine; furthermore, this is one of the major problems with some or many men in general and some women too when it comes to certain sexual positions or sexual acts, they don't take in consideration of the other persons having rights over their body or decision of what is off limits to them.

My point and opinion being this: Even with all the research and suggestions, etc... about how to have anal sex both her and I have done prior together, I personally come to a conclusion that the human anus m/f was not designed to being penetrated and especially when you have to manipulated around the curves in the anal canal and use loads of lubrication that are not produced by that part of the body. A womans vagina is designed to accept a mans penis, it is designed to produce a lubrication naturally in order to accept a mans penis, a man does not have to manipulate the direction or course of his penis to a womans vaginal walls; furthermore, a woman's vagina is designed to conform to a mans penis to accommodate it, be it that the man is small or has an above average size; that is the human anatomy (also can apply to all creatures on the planet).

Point being, the anus (anal canal) is not designed the same as a woman's vagina, and was not designed to accept a penis inside it (same applies to a mans anal canal). Don't get me wrong or think I am saying others should be against, having or trying anal if it is of mutual agreement between sexual partners, and not forced on another.

For myself and my conclusion in concerns to anal sex is based upon the research and experience me and my g/f have had with it. It takes quite a bit of time and patients before a human anus will accept being penetrated sexually for the first time; whereas, a woman's vagina (a virgin) does not take even 1/1000th of the time before it is willing to accept being penetrated fully (consensual sex).


Apology to Lady, for being "Controversial" in her Blog posting here.


rdy2try4 52F  
3129 posts
4/14/2006 7:00 am


You are not being controversial, you are being logical and correct. Like you, I am *NOT* passing judgement on people that like doing anal, however it is a very dangerous thing to do, even if you have done it before. Infections from having feces in the tip of a penis, infections from people that go from anus to vagina and feces being inserted there, anal walls are thin and have NO peristeum wall!! so they can rip and do very often, etc... The anus WAS NOT meant for penetration at all!! I have yet to find a single doctor that even with all the lube and time etc...that actually *recommends* anal sex. I have found far more that say more if you have to nothing I can say will change your mind. However I have found more than not that have seen the damage and had people wearing butt plugs or depends for the rest of their lives because of damage caused by anal sex. Nick, I am NOT condemning anyone here nor trying to spark a conversation for defending your doing it. I am just making some facts that back what he is saying. Enjoy doing whatever the TWO of you feel you wish to do!!!

haversack_smith 41M
6192 posts
4/14/2006 9:35 am

I've tried it with a dildo. It's... okay. The world didn't end or anything, it wasn't unpleasant, but I didn't go wild for it either. On other occaisions someone's slipped a little finger in there and that's much better. Mind you I'm not desparately into giving fully penetrative anal sex either; if they like it I'll use a finger on a woman to heighten her arousal but when I've put my penis in there I've found it definately overrated, from my point of view.

Rdy is right about the health implications btw - you should NEVER go anus to vagina without changing the condom, that goes for fingers/toys too, you have to be super-gentle, and if you're doing it more than once in a while that's way too much. An ex-girlfriend worked in a nursing home and she had some disturbing stories about gays who had indulged in too much anal sex in their younger days.

Ladywithatti2d 77F  
495 posts
4/14/2006 9:56 am

NO need to apologize Nick. Perhaps, if some men were educated with the information that you and Rdy, have shared, they may begin to realize that anal isn't all its "cracked" up to be lol.

I know some women, and men absolutely love it, think its better than bubble gum, but the majority of both genders, I don't believe are really into it that much.

I think its just a matter of sticking it where you know it isn't suppose to go, the "naughty" factor.


rm_OneHappyDad 83M
34 posts
4/23/2006 3:05 am

I wouldn't do it to a woman. For me, it doesn't have the least bit of appeal. And, for health reasons, Rdy has said it. (In Vietnam, the VC used feces on sharpened sticks at the bottom of holes that would pierce feet and SERIOUSLY infect the wound. Any break in skin with that stuff can be a killer.)

crazygurl2xx 58F

4/25/2006 4:49 pm

i have met men who LOVE anal penetration by women.. several in fact, hell, even lots...
not bi, heterosexual men who love prostate stimulation.maybe not a dildo though

turq6969 71M
553 posts
4/30/2006 7:35 pm

HOW MANY MEN ARE WILLING TO HAVE ANAL SEX PERFORMED ON THEM, I.E. DILDO ETC. I would bend over and go for it, with the understanding ...

I would have to trust that the woman would stop if I experienced any pain or said "STOP!", as I would do for her. If the lady wanted anal, and I didn't have a prophylactic, we'd have to postpone it. 'No glove, no shove'. For the reasons given above, I've practiced this policy for many years. BTW, it's been many years since a woman has asked me for anal.

Peace and Love,

Page1948 70M
6 posts
7/20/2006 5:27 am

I am bisexual and enjoy receiving anal penetration from both men and women. I enjoy both sexes equally so long as the woman can orgasm from using her strap-on. I do not enjoy receiving anal penetration from a partner who is doing it only for my satisfaction.

Safety and cleaniness is paramount for enjoyable anal sex. Condoms are a must for all men, all of the time; condoms are necessary for dildos, etc. if the "toy" is not my own. I do not share my toys with others unless a condom is used.

Use lots and lots of lube!! There is no natural lubrication produced back there. Be patient, using you fingers (clean naturally) to gently stretch the anal spinacter. Alway be gentle and move slowly until the recepient is relaxed and comfortable.

Anal penetration is extremely satisfying for me. I do not orgasm during penetration but find it deeply satisfying sexually. The sexual tension which I normally feel is relieved and I get satisfaction out of giving my partner a sexual experience they value.

clamdigger102 47M

12/14/2006 9:35 am

The thing is the anus supposedly has a lot of nerve endings and it might be pleasureable to have a dildo stuck up a man's ass, but I ain't gonna do it. I mean that's too perverted and what women would want to do it? I've had a couple women who wanted it up the ass and I did it for a while. But it is an exit. It has a lot of germs in there and it is probably where the aids virus is located. If you're going to do the anus you better use a condom.

clamdigger102 47M

12/14/2006 9:38 am

Just the idea of a man with a dildo up his butt just doesn't seem to be very manly.

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