Ladyblue85 59F
117 posts
10/4/2005 11:54 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


Ok, time to vent again... but this is ONLY for the ladies, cuz quite frankly, men can't comprehend any of the shit they even read.... which only confirms what I've known for over 20 years ~~ the size of a man's brain truely is what he can only fit into the "head" of his dick instead of the one he attempts to carry on his shoulders.

I have been back on this site for just under a year and coming up on 30,000 hits. I really should have kept count on how many actually wrote: who was polite yet too far away for me to consider, who were just plain rude and nasty from the first: "Hey there, I love big tits.... can I tit fuck u with my 9" cock? here's my # ...."
Well gee, that really catches my interest!!

Although when i started here a year ago, my profile was quite simple.... i was then looking for friends with benefits (if anything developed, fine). Men seem to think that means, "ok, I'll just talk to the broads for a few days .... weeks, get their trust, fuck them silly then go bye-bye. " Hey! Nice to have someone make us feel like whores!

Yes, true, this may be a sex site, and while there are a small percentage of women who do just want hot sweaty sex without even knowing the guys' names..... thats fine for them, but men don't seem to understand, while they are all about getting turned on automatically by visuals, women get turned on by treated with R-E-S-P-E-C-T, kindness and yes, if I may say it here, romance. Even if there is an understanding between all that one or both are married.

And then there are those guys.... yes I have countless myself who have been eventually kicked to the curb ~~ those who I have met with once, sometimes more and they eventually fail that "friends w/bennies" test. That is, never keeping in touch, even with just a "Hi, how u doing , what's new, etc" They only start a conversation when THEY want to get laid -- then expect us (me) to be ready to throw ourselves down and spread for them like they are the greatest fucks in town. Well from my experience with MANY MANY of the guys I have met thru here, in all age ranges..... there have only been 3 that have really DONE IT for me in all aspects of a friendship/sexual relationship. And I am very leery of those guys who have to brag in their profiles how great they are in bed, cuz I wonder after being with some of them "You the hell told u you were even good??" How many men actually know WHERE the hell a woman's clit is --- and that if they do know....u dont treat it like a piece of meat. My god!! my venting for the women ~~ esp. those who are suspicious of who to meet and/or trust....ALWAYS trust ur instincts!! I have chatted with on IM, e-mails and phone with many many of these fools throughout the state.... and can tell whoever wants to know ---

#1 - who lies in their profiles
#2 - who is acutally married when they state in their stats that they are separated, divorced or single!
#3 - who tends to show up drunk (or drinks like a fish upon arriving)
#4 - and more esp. those who CAN'T get it up or keep it up -- and its more than a temp. problem, then make excuses.
#5 - and of course, I can tell you who IS worth the trouble.

Do I have something against married guys? Not at all, but be upfront and honest. I can be a good friend and yes, girlfriend to a married guy, but dont try to fuck me over. And I don't know why guys seem to think us women are really that stupid -- when it comes to trying to lie to us about why they can only meet us during "certain hours" ! DUH!!

So girls, got any questions for ME --- go ahead and ask! lol

realmom2 60M/52F

10/4/2005 3:04 pm

No questions, just a comment. Love your blog and your profile, keep telling it like it is sweetie.

Straycatsetsuko 62F

10/4/2005 3:22 pm

Bravo! Braa-Vo! While I have no interest in attached men, mostly because I"ve done it, and it just wasn't suitable for me, Yes, honesty is best. I get mad if you're not honest with me. I blog, it's something to think about.

Oh, yeah, and they guys who say they want friends with benefits, but only when they want to be friends with benefits. When they think about me, when they don't. It can be months before I hear from someone again. You have to attend for ANY relationship. The only way to have a friend with benefits is to be a Friend, not just a friend when you t hink about it.

Sigh. But guys will be guys. Not much you can do about that. Just gotta figure out who's a gem, and who isn't.

Ladyblue85 59F

10/4/2005 7:38 pm

Yes Cat, boys will be boys.... but I was hoping that someone with a dick would have the common sense to figure out that if enjoy rolling around naked with someone who enjoys ur company, they'd at least attempt to want to stay in contact on a regular basis. Yet they turn around and bitch and moan in their profiles and blogs (surprise! some of them CAN write!) that there are no real WOMEN on here and they all play games. Maybe if the men would stop and think about the signals they give off or the stupid things they say when we're trying to get to know them.... they would understand why some women suddenly just back off. Or as they call it, Not following thru. Personally, I would rather see face pics than cock my age,I do know what a penis looks like and am not impressed by how big it is -- if I want to know, I will ask. ANd another pet peeve??? The guys not having pics to share --- I always hear the line, "I dont know how to download pics, etc..... or I am in the public service area...." Tough shit!! If u want to play adult games, at least have the balls to show ur face, because I DO NOT MEET ANYONE WITHOUT SEEING A FACE. It's not just a matter of safety for a woman, but I know what type of guy I am attracted to -- and no, it's not about who is the best looking.

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