It's Adultfriendfinder NOT KIDS  

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8/28/2006 2:20 pm

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It's Adultfriendfinder NOT KIDS

Hello AdultFriendFinder World!

Recently I had a terrible experience here on this site. It seem like far too many of us are here to waste other people's time and play games. When last I checked this site said not littleboys& I am so sick and tired of those who don't read what you took time to write on your profile. those who steal your pictures and those who write to you as though you're piece of meat. I have on ocassion written some ranchy emails to people on here but it is only because I detect in their profile that this is the kind of talk they like.

People should understand that respect is the name of the game. Ladies and gentlemen you'll get nowhere if you don't respect the wishes of others on this site. So many people I have spoken to lately have told me they had to report someone to the webmaster because of abusive and disrespectful language. None of us gave away the right to be respected and treated with decency when we signed up for this website. So why then some people write to women who desire only black men or white men and call them names? Why do some women write to men with the same idiotic statements. Yes I know the argument they are immature and jealous but keep that to yourselves. We're all here for fun so let us start respecting each other and have fun.

My other issues are those people who want to spend ten years collecting your emails and your photos. Yes we can block them but why go through all of that. If you're not interested in the man, woman, couple, TSVG, and other personalities on here then say so, but don't go about playing games. Writing let's meet and then when the date rolls around for the meeting you don't even show for the date or refuse to answer your phone. Look if you're scared to meet a person then do what I do-invite them to a public place during the day or evening. A place you know that will be crowded like a resturante or bar, or even to a public event like a political rally or concert. This insure that you're safe in teh crowd and at the end of the date you can kiss cheek-to-cheek good night and agree to see or not see each other again. Make sure when you meet someone that someone other than yourself and your cell phone knows. I got several trusted buddies on here and whenever they are meeting with people they've meet on this site I get a text message with the person's number, name, and place of the meeting. I tell them to check in with me visibly in front of their guest so that if it is a wacko then the person knows that someone knows where you're at.

Men and women stealing others photos. Darn it! It is not yours so stop taking it and using it like it is. Sorry people I hate to log on and see my ass on someone else's page. What the webmaster needs to do is stop right click access to photos and people won't be able to steal your photos. I also hate those a-holes who like to collect photos always writing for you to send them photos but they don't send any of their own to you.


Have you evee met someone from this site and they are not what their profile photos shows? Shit you go there looking for a blonde or burnnette with a nice rack of tits and slender figure and you get there and I need not explain what the picture you see. It is for sure not the person in the photo. Like the bodybuilder who turned out to be a brick house of wobbling porpotions-I was not mad but I was sad for this young woman who did not have enough confidence in herself to send me a true photo of herself. I would rather meet a big girl with confidence than a liar. Trust me even if nothing happens between us you'll walk away with my respect. Lying to people is making decisions for them and I want no one making decisions for me.

The Invite!
Please people it does nothing for your confidence when you invite some woman to your place to fuck in your first email. Shit treat her like a lady and you'll get more responses. Even a whore they say wants to be treated like a lady. I have seen emails sent to women with these two basic lines

"Hi, I would like to fuck you. Why don't you come over to my place so I can rock your world." Shit unless these women are desperate then they'll whistling over to your place on two 500 horsepower Harleys with their hair blowing. People in the states what sense does it make to invite someone in Germany to your place and visa versa. They put a distance meter there for a reason. Look I know it is not accurate but if you know you like is Seattle why the hell you inviting someone from Warsaw or Berlin to your house?

Last but not least the two line emails and profiles.

Ladies and Gentlemen no one unless they are desperate will want to meet you with two line emails. Yes your profile should say something more about you other than you're lookig for a lay. Women I hate those betrayals some of you write on your profiles, using model photos and lines from porno movies and other medium to write your profiles. Men you're guilty of this too. Why don't everyone use their imagination and write what it is they truly want. You see most people are scared of who they are so they pretend to be something their not. You'll never find love is you don't love yourself. You'll never find happiness if you're not happy. You'll never get laid if you haven't laid yourself. How do you lay yourself? Do it mentally! Look deep within and ask yourself as a member of the opposite sex how do you want to be treated and laid? Then reverse the role and you'll lay yourself and then and only then you'll be able to know what you can offer and what you want.

P.S. I hope everyone enjoys reading here! Also if this Blog post offends anyone personally I don't apologise I simply say adjust your fire and shoot again. Cheerios Breakfast American Sereal

moonlightphoenix 46F
6508 posts
8/28/2006 2:50 pm

"None of us gave away the right to be respected and treated with decency when we signed up for this website."

EXCELLENT point!!!

Nail right on the head, my friend.

iwantaman4me0 41F

8/28/2006 2:51 pm

here here, very true i wish u could email every guy that emails me with that

love it

VCF1962 106F

8/28/2006 2:53 pm

God I wish all the men on here saw sense like that ! They would get so much further. What you have said is common sense - severely lacking on here !

I think the poor guys believe the marketing. Sure, you can hook up on the same night - if you don't care who or what turns up !

Mistress Innuendo
Taking what you say and turning it into something naughty !!

CB_2 52F

8/28/2006 2:58 pm

Luke, you made some very valid points. I hope plenty of people read them.

Not gonna invite you round to my place for a fuck, seeing as how you live so far away, though

Blogito ergo sum.

Djeeper1987 48M

8/28/2006 3:04 pm

Yeah, this site still has a lot of work to be done. Valid post!!

Carpe Diem

kitchenfun1234 45M
1797 posts
8/28/2006 3:11 pm

Wise words..... I agree with every line.

Don't ever give up searching for the fun in life.

rm_COOL2006778 40M

8/28/2006 3:18 pm

i agree with you on a lot of your points. the thing that trips me out are the women that want to see your face and can't show you theirs and the couples that want to do groups but don't want you with their wifes but want the woman your with. thats messed up.Whats up with the woman that want your email adress then sends you some paysite to see them this is not a strip club. Whats up with the gay guys that want to get with you, if i was into that the it would be on my profile. COME ON PEOPLE LETS GET IT TOGETHER!!!!!!!


8/28/2006 5:22 pm

For Comments Posted 28.08.06

You've all made valid points especially Cool2006778-I hate those women who does this. But it is a way for AdultFriendFinder to make money for they encourage this. Gay men really need to respect others sexuality more than any other group on here. I have gotten so many "I'll suck your dick and fuck you better than she can" emails from gay men. I just block them outright and not respond. I'll keep these issues coming for someone needs to point them out. Thank you all for your comments and I'll surely make sure to keep it REAL and ADULT-lol ?* ?* ?*

Girl4blackboys 41F

8/29/2006 3:16 am

Well I got some quality dates on AdultFriendFinder and some bad ones. I met some very nice people and some people that are dumb. I came across alot of people that like to hear themself talk but that are not into action or people believing to be on this site means in 2 minutes there is action, no need to talk. As a matter of fact this site represents the real life - as in here, I met the same people in swinger clubs, on other forum sites or where ever. Of course it is easier to act like a jackass on internet than in real life but somebody already acting like that here will not turn out as a real gentlemen in real life so I don't waste time. I am socialised on the internet for over 10 years and no matter where you go - you will find it everywhere like this .I go for "quality, not quantity" because my free time is very limited so I decide wisely before. Don't let those dumb people get on your nerves - they ain't worth it .

ShyFreak001 51F

9/4/2006 1:35 pm




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