Were did ya go?  

LNRinOtown 60M/60F
4 posts
3/4/2006 2:29 pm

Last Read:
5/2/2006 4:44 am

Were did ya go?

We have only been here for 45 days and really do like it. BUT!!!! It seems to me that when I reply to a message, the person I replied to should get it within a few seconds, not hours later or the next day.
Are we the only ones that have this problem?


LNRinOtown 60M/60F

3/9/2006 9:08 am

That makes sense. Just like me replying to this a few days later. Thanks! Ok now that you answered my question my Blog is done.
Guess I'll start new one

rm_Max_n_mita 65M/58F
1 post
3/15/2006 7:20 pm

I think the "email" system on AdultFriendFinder may be slightly dysfunctional, (I am thinking Attention Deficit Disorder or severe Dysexia here).

I maintain a couple of standard alternate nicks here and on alt.com and have sometimes tested the system to make sure that what I send is arriving the way I intended and have found that some are there within minutes and others days later. Sort of like my cell phone voice mails, LOL.

It isn't anything you are doing wrong, just life in the "sometimes not so fast" lane.

Also as you point out if the person you write to gets busy and don't log in and check the mail for a few days it makes it seem like it takes longer. Then of course there are those like us who may not have a chance to discuss the profile of someone who wrote to us and make sure we both feel they are compatible.

Even worse is my own tendancy to reply at length to even short emails. (As evidenced by this response.) I personally feel that if I am going to respond to someone they deserve a decent response even if it is a rejection. I hate checking my mail and finding a one liner that doesn't really say anything so I make sure I do not do that to others. That being the case I may put off replying for a few days until I have time to sit and formulate what I feel is an appropriate response.

BTW, we received and accepted your network invitation. You will find that mita is quite the exhibitionist and we hope you enjoy the photos in our album. Drop us a line if you like and we will get back to you.

Max & mita

rm_pagan380 66M
4405 posts
4/23/2006 6:31 pm

Welcome to BLOGVILLE, things don't work the same here as in the real internet world. I think it depends on the server your logged on to. Chat rooms are live but this is more like slow email. Drop by and say hi.
Truly, pagan380

Come play naked in the sunshine and dance naked under the stars.


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