ok, let's be honest, here!  

rm_KinkyMTgirl 40F
562 posts
2/27/2005 10:10 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

ok, let's be honest, here!

Wow, 2 posts today!! lol Ok, when it comes to sex and sexual relationships I try to be honest at all times...why can't guys do the same? I mean I thought I was gonna end up with a fuck-buddy until I moved...He's the one that brought it up, but I haven't seen him, except for in passing, since the day we fucked! If all he wanted was to get laid, fine, but at least be honest and tell me. Don't say things that he doesn't mean! I wasn't asking for marriage...a relationship would have been alright, but it's not like I was picking out china! I war with myself over calling him again...sometimes my pride gets in the way. I can't stand the thought of him rejecting me, yet I want to know what the hell is going on! I told him I was a nympho and he HAD to know I enjoyed myself when we fucked! I guess I just have to bite the bullet and call him and find out what's up. I wish life were simpler. I just want to have some hot, sweaty sex with him... why can't he cooperate? lol

Apolybear 55M

2/28/2005 12:36 pm

I don't mean to offend you, but the main reason guys disappear after a 1st date or after having sex, is because they didn't enjoy the experience (for whatever reason). Maybe he has hangups, or perhaps you wore him out and he was afraid he couldn't keep up - who knows???

Usually, the only guys who want 1 night stands are cheating husbands who can't risk you getting attached and causing them issues, or they've lied about something that would adversely affect your decision to keep having sex with them.

There's nothing wrong with calling him once and see if he's still interested. If he avoids you, you have your answer.

richardlv2 83M
25 posts
2/28/2005 5:44 pm

sounds like you are being honest///
you want to fuck him.
So just call him and tell him that.
That ay you will have what you want and be in control.

LATK1976 42M
2 posts
2/28/2005 5:46 pm

sounds like you got what you wanted ... hot, sweaty sex with him ... and you "can't stand the thought of him rejecting me" ... welcome to what men go through constantly. Best of luck

rm_KinkyMTgirl 40F
66 posts
3/1/2005 9:54 am

my whole point of the thing was to ask why a guy would say "call me" if he didn't want to hear from a girl. I know guys say, "I'll call you," and never do it, but girls and guys are different...at least I am, if I tell someone I'll call, I'll call. If I'm asked to call, I will. I just wonder why someone would say "call me" if he didn't want to hear from me again. Its irritating. If he wouldn't have said anything I wouldn't have called...it's not my style

rm_rockDREWstar 32M
17 posts
3/3/2005 7:16 pm

Where are you from...I'm more than willing to have hot, sweaty sex w/ you...

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