Ethical Sluts?  

KandyGurl696 36F
23 posts
7/3/2006 6:26 am

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7/21/2006 1:52 pm

Ethical Sluts?

A friend of mine swears by this book called the Ethical Slut. I tried to read it but I couldn't do it- I disagreed with so many things. To each his own on their pursuit of whatever but for me-

I can't see just fucking someone for the sake of fucking... I have "back-up" numbers for situations like that...

I need some sort of connection- no Im not trying to make a love connection off of sex- lol that would be an aweful way to try and do things- but Im not looking for the one night stands either.

I truly don't understand that; if you're horny- by all means get your needs filled- but I believe that there's a time when you have to look within yourself-

Do you have self-control?
Are you just trying to fill a void in your life?
Are you trying to avoid close contact with another?
Avoiding getting hurt?

All these are questions I ask those out there... I know that alot will say- no Im just fucking cuz I like to and thats all well and good...

But isnt there more to a person than a dick or pussy?

I guess not on this site...

I've been horny as hell lately but the thing is this... I truly cannot see myself fucking someone just cuz Im horny... My friend is simply put amazing. Am I in love with him? I want to say yes, but it could be a strong infatuation. Only time will tell.

I do know this much is true; I haven't slept with anyone since him (a few mths ago), maybe Im comparing everyone to him and thats not fair but hey. I figure this much- Time will tell what's meant to be and what's not.

In the interim I always have my vibrators....

rm_hotmamaNcols 41F
445 posts
7/3/2006 8:51 am

At one time in my life, I could just fuck. No feelings, hell, not even a phone call. But I wanted it that way. No strings. I was going thru alot and COULDN'T feel.

Now, I'd rather masturbate than to temporarily entertain someone. I don't waste a single iota of time on the those applying to be temps either. I'm too good for that, ya know?

Anyhow, good luck with the guy!!

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