Are we really to busy?  

KandyCoated4U 53F
1461 posts
5/3/2006 5:08 am

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Are we really to busy?

Last night while chatting with a friend they explained that they are just to busy to go out anymore.They are just to busy to meet people. They are just to busy.
Have our lives become just that busy that we don't have time for ourselves? Or do some just make excuses for not getting out? I have noticed that most people are no longer apart of the bar sceens.I know bars don't do much for me. But I do things to meet people. Yet they get pissed off when they have no one in their lives, even just for sex.
Then she told me that on this site most of the men don't make the 1st move. Or they make plans and don't show, they exchange numbers and never call. Ok so this is the net baby. Lot's of people do that. But I think it's 2 out of 10 that will make contact and show up. You juts have to take a chance.
So why do you think this happens? Any reason or excuse?

! If I were a crayon, I'd most likely be jammed up some kids nose.

tazzler1 56M/43F

5/3/2006 9:00 am

kandy now days people think that if they slow down to smell the roses or to watch life as it happens they think they are doing something wrong so they try to always do something and they try to find someone that is like that for them too. life in the fast lane sucks, remember the mac davis song "stop and smell the roses" he said it best in that song.
with tvs, computers, phones, and radios piped into our "caves" we don't need to go out much any more the world comes to us, tv and radio gives us our news and entertainment, computers give us sex (meeting people) and shopping (for some gals shopping is sex isn't it LO, and the phone now gets used to let family know we don't have a life and to call in sick for work or so the can call us to work when they need us, all of our luxuries have made the world more anti social i believe and the politicians keep telling us how to think (trying to anyways).
guys are afraid to make the first move anymore because it is viewed as "aggressive" and the world no longer likes it so guys are changing (well most are i think)...... trouble is a gal is not to make the first move as it is not "lady like" for here no one can make any moves unless you pay for it (sounds like prostitution) I cold go on but nuff said but this the world is nuts so be crazy and you'll be happy

LustyTaurus 49M
21253 posts
5/3/2006 9:49 pm

That's an amazing stat considering men outnumber the ladies like 8 to one...but life is chaotic and it takes effort to fit new and sometimes old friends in...good podt.


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