I dare you to do more!  

Kaliedascope61 42M
3157 posts
3/7/2006 12:23 pm

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I dare you to do more!

With citizen_five taking the lead on the blog awards, I wanted to add my two cents on the naysayer’s, and the idea that it is a popularity list.

I do not understand what the big deal is, if you don’t want to participate then don’t, why waste your time worrying about something you don’t care for in the first place? The whole premise of it was to bring people together to participate in something, anything, citizen_five made a suggestion, challenging people to come up with idea, I took that challenge and the idea was for those that wanted to have friendship and fun, to get together and award those that give us the opportunity to laugh, and smile, to give a pat on the back to those that arouse us and provoke us to think about something other then genitals. What was your idea? Did you care enough to come up with one? Did you suggest any? What were they? Do you want to put it action? Do you have time? Maybe someone else days, and can do a better job with it, could you handle that?

There is a big picture that is being missed. If there is another way, then please, share it. I’m here because I want to be a part of a group that challenges me in more then sexuality. I’m here because I have found a place where my thoughts and feelings, and silliness can be appreciated. I do not care if I get a nomination or not, I don’t think many of us do. The point is lets all get together, have a laugh, challenge each other to make better blogs, inspire each other write! That is what it is about to me.

I know I nominated mostly people from the “dreaded list” not because they are already popular, but because they are the ones who are getting it done in my opinion. They are on that list people cuz they inspire people to comment on there blog, because they are the ones who are bringing blogging to a whole new level, making it even more then what it was intended to be. For that I think it is well justified to congratulate them on a job well done.

I might not have a popular opinion, but I like the list. What I do not like is what looks like to be a lot of complaining about it, by those who probably wouldn’t complain if they were in a top ten spot. I am no where near that, but I think if I take the time out of my busy day and spend the time that I would usually spend in my journal and just blog, and put out honest thoughts and feelings, and just take the opportunity to be who I am, and to be creative then I will move up that list. I also like this list because it lets me know where I stand amongst my peers. It’s a competitive thing for me. I know not everyone is competitive, and you don’t have to be. Its just one of the many things I have come to love about Blogland. It is neither a good nor a bad thing to be or not to be. The further I move up the list, the more I feel I’m heading in the right direction, the better I feel about what I write. Lets me know that there are people out there that I have never spoken to who enjoy reading my thoughts and opinions, or at least took the time to check it out. That’s all I really ask for.

I dare you to allow yourself to be challenged! I dare you to compete! I dare you to open up and let it all hang out there! I dare you to gamble with your views, and how you really feel! If you want this place to be better, then stop complaining, and make your own blog better, that is all you can really do.

I keep coming across themes that it is wrong to be a part of circle of friends, that it is wrong to form cliques of like minded people. I don’t really understand this either. I have no real comment for it. It just makes me wonder why?

Why are you here? Not on AdultFriendFinder but in Blogland? My answer to that is to see who in this world is in the same mine set as I am. What better place to find that out? Where else can you read about those that you find interesting, deep honest thoughts about who they are, on a regular basis. Your damn sure not going to find it in profiles, or in most of the groups. The chat rooms are a joke as every chat room ever created not just the ones on AdultFriendFinder, blog land is the only place on AdultFriendFinder for someone like me.

The End.

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Now back to your regulary scheduled broadcast of tits and ass!

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angelgrrl 49F

3/7/2006 1:43 pm

I will probably never make a lists but I blog because I enjoy it. And if I quit enjoying it, I'll stop. I do enjoy the comments I get from people, it's great conversation, and I like reading and commenting on other people's blogs -- but I don't think of it as competitive. I am not very competitive by nature though; the fact that people do read my thoughts and comment is enough for me. I don't care if people like other blogs better -- other blogs ARE far more interesting than mine!


slidein2meplz 63F
1994 posts
3/7/2006 3:55 pm

Working the RED carpetBlogland style I think it's a great idea...

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~


catseyes23 62F

3/7/2006 9:38 pm

"I’m here because I have found a place where my thoughts and feelings, and silliness can be appreciated. I do not care if I get a nomination or not, I don’t think many of us do. The point is lets all get together, have a laugh, challenge each other to make better blogs, inspire each other write!"

I am inclined to agree with you on that one.

Cats...


TzarsAmuseChant 42M
2854 posts
3/8/2006 7:48 am

bravo!

(are the regularly scheduled tits and ass YOUR tits and ass? If so, I think I'll... um... go do something else for a little while. )


rm_saintlianna 46F
15466 posts
3/8/2006 9:16 am

Yay!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are so smart!


citizen_2point5 48M
71 posts
3/8/2006 3:57 pm

    Quoting TzarsAmuseChant:
    bravo!

    (are the regularly scheduled tits and ass YOUR tits and ass? If so, I think I'll... um... go do something else for a little while. )
Oh Great. I suppose that means you'll be getting me out again. Can you use some lotion this time? I'm beginning to get chaffed.


Kaliedascope61 42M
4084 posts
3/9/2006 4:30 pm

    Quoting angelgrrl:
    I will probably never make a lists but I blog because I enjoy it. And if I quit enjoying it, I'll stop. I do enjoy the comments I get from people, it's great conversation, and I like reading and commenting on other people's blogs -- but I don't think of it as competitive. I am not very competitive by nature though; the fact that people do read my thoughts and comment is enough for me. I don't care if people like other blogs better -- other blogs ARE far more interesting than mine!
I enjoy your blog! and you are in the slots, i seen you there.


Kaliedascope61 42M
4084 posts
3/9/2006 4:32 pm

Thank you, and I know five will do a great job of it! He's the one doing all the work.


Kaliedascope61 42M
4084 posts
3/9/2006 4:33 pm

    Quoting catseyes23:
    "I’m here because I have found a place where my thoughts and feelings, and silliness can be appreciated. I do not care if I get a nomination or not, I don’t think many of us do. The point is lets all get together, have a laugh, challenge each other to make better blogs, inspire each other write!"

    I am inclined to agree with you on that one.

    Cats...
thank you very much, I know I enjoy going to your blog and reading.


Kaliedascope61 42M
4084 posts
3/9/2006 4:34 pm

    Quoting TzarsAmuseChant:
    bravo!

    (are the regularly scheduled tits and ass YOUR tits and ass? If so, I think I'll... um... go do something else for a little while. )
thats not what your email says!


Kaliedascope61 42M
4084 posts
3/9/2006 4:36 pm

yes i know

And your so funny! and not just looking, your funny all over and in and out.


Kaliedascope61 42M
4084 posts
3/9/2006 4:37 pm

    Quoting citizen_2point5:
    Oh Great. I suppose that means you'll be getting me out again. Can you use some lotion this time? I'm beginning to get chaffed.
Five! your goon escaped!


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