An interview with me....  

JustAGuyInTn 53M
16 posts
7/18/2006 8:30 pm

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7/27/2006 3:39 pm

An interview with me....

Okay I've been getting alot of questions about me, so rather than answering the same questions over and over again, I thought I'd interview myself and pose those questions to myself, so here we go:

Q: Are your pictures actually of you?
A: Yes. Among other things, I am an amateur photographer. I enjoy photographing landscapes and erotic portraits of both males and females. I prefer working in Black and White, and working with film and developing and printing my own photographs; however, I just recently purchased a Canon digital SLR which I love. I believe that Black and White forces me to look beyond the image to capture not just a picture, but an emotion. I believe the human form is by far the most beautiful things which I have captured with my camera. The photos I have displayed on my profile are self portraits.

Q: Are you for real? Why aren't you married?
A: Yes, my description and my postings are me, and I am real. I was married, but it didn't stick. I had one other "rebound" relationship shortly after the end of a long and bitter divorce which turned into a disaster. It has taken me years to understand the my primary problem has been that I am a self fish jerk. Upon my ultimate realization that the world does not turn for my benefit, I stopped and took a hard look around and understood that you don't get what you want by taking, you get what you want by giving all that you have.

Q: It's like you read my mind. How did you learn all that stuff?
A: That was the easy part. I simply had to understand what I loved most and turned it around. It's not that I understand what women want, I understand what I have always wanted. I didn't learn anything that I didn't already know, I just changed my perspective.

Q: So why aren't you in a relationship now?
A: It's pretty simple. I travel to different places 10 months out of the year for my job. I rarely spend more than 4 weeks at a single location, which makes it nearly impossible to establish a "normal" relationship. I don't believe that it is fair to ask a woman to be happy with a long distance intimate relationship.

Q: When will you be coming to my town, and can I meet you?
A: I don't set my schedule, and rarely know where I am going to be more than two months in advance. I do update my profile whenever I arrive in a new location so that anyone who would be interested in knowing where I am doesn't have to ask. If you want to know where I am going in the next two months, you need to ask. As far as will I meet you, the answer is yes. I always like to meet someone at a neutral location where you feel safe. I like to talk and get to know you and make sure that we are both comfortable with each other before anything else happens.

Q: Have you had one night stands?
A: Yes... and no. For me, this has been about making connections with others, not so much about the sex. I have friends I have never slept with, and would in all probablility never sleep with, and I have friends that I have been to heaven and back with... I would not trade that for all the sex in the world.

more to follow...


7/19/2006 4:29 pm

Very nice darlin'. I would love to see more of your photos (I don't just mean of you, but of your work in general).

_Safira 54F
11260 posts
7/24/2006 9:18 pm

Absolutely brilliant. Thanks for the candor. I'm outside of Washington, DC. Would love to buy you a drink when you're in town.

Safira {=}

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