~Time DOES Heal~  

NakedCooedAllah 45F
33 posts
5/30/2005 1:39 am

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~Time DOES Heal~

When a relationship comes to an unexpected end, we are often devastated by it, we start questioning ourselves and our confidence takes a real beating... YES, this has happened to me many a times. You could say that I've a knack for falling for the wrong kinds of men...But I look at it differently...

Afterall, what doesnt break me only makes me stronger. So with this in mind, I stood outside the circle of heartbreak and looked inside, trying with every cell of my being to be as objective as possible. Not critical, objective. Trying to see myself as others see me was an eye-opener! LOL... I learnt alot about myself through this. I also learn that the self pity had to stop and I had to pick myself up, dust my self off and prepare myself for lifes next bout of events.

I'm greatful that in this time of self discovery, I could depend on some very good people, some people that I've never met in person, people who I can call friends because they have accepted me for whom I am, and encourage and build, rather than berate me for my mistakes.

Having been this fortunate, I am now paying it forward! I'm trying to be optimistic for me, for others and to encourage, build people up, be a friend and LISTEN to people. I may not be the best at romantic relationships, but at least I can try to be a friend to someone who needs one!!! In time, maybe I'll get the hang of the romantic relationship scenario, but until then I'm happy to just revel in ME!!!

HughJarse2000 49M

5/30/2005 7:10 am

Here's to heart beak !
My heart has been at the menders for 6 weeks. The guy in the shop said that most of the parts have to be re-ordered , or something. He said it should be fixed before Christmas.
He reminded me that it is the sixth time he has had it in his workshop. Asked me what it is I do with it exactly to get it so beaten up all the time?
I just explain that this is how it is when you believe in love .
Long live true love!

LimesMastsAvoid 71M
456 posts
5/30/2005 12:14 pm

Giving someone all your love is never an
assurance that they'll love you back!
Don't expect love in return; just wait
for it to grow in their heart
but if it doesn't, be content it grew in yours.
It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone,
an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone,
but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

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