Jade's Relationship Guide  

Jaded_Angel4c 34F
10 posts
3/7/2006 7:48 am

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Jade's Relationship Guide

*****Disclaimer***** The opinions expressed herein are not geared towards any one specific person. If they offend the author is under no obligation to apoligize cause you read the fucking disclaimer and revoke all rights except to bitch about it and voice your own opinion.

I will say first and foremost that there are guys whom are great in bed, intelligent, self sufficient, willing to sacrifice. Some of them even want to love with all their heart, most just want to have "fun". Just once it would be nice to roll up all the attributes of each and every male I've ever liked, give him that gene that makes him unafraid of the word "relationship" roll with it.

If you haven't figured it out, here's a tip: In my language (Jade and yes that's an original idea) the term relationship means to simply enjoy one's company that can extend into the realm of boyfriend and girlfriend. This DOES NOT imply "monogamy", rather "monogamy" must be agreed upon by both parties before it is stipulated. So to put it in laymen's terms. Relationship = we have an open relationship unless otherwise stated (just observe the being safe rules aka wrap it up and know where your bitches have been).

To define the Boyfriend and Girlfriend principle, it's simple and I'll break down the different classes of relationships while I'm at it.

FB or Fuck Buddy = We get together to have meaningless sex nothing more, nothing less.

FWB or Friend w/Benefits = We can go out and have a drink, see a movie, perform all friend like activities as well as have a satisfying mutual sexual relationship.

BF/GF or Boyfriend/Girlfriend = We enjoy the same perks as friends with benefits but we are also forming an emotional bond to each other.

Open Relationship = Generally emotionally monogamous to one person but able to have sex with others.

Polyamorous (to love more than one person)= Dating more than one peron.

Monogamous (having one partner) = Everyone knows this one.

Polygamous (married to more than one person) = not to be confused with Polyamorous which has no legally binding ties.

Bitches = Universal term for both male and female sexes.

Keep in mind I have priorities and it works out. My "Man/Woman" aka BF/GF will always get a call before any of the others. Then comes the Dom/subs, FWB's, and then the FB's. As well as if we're just fb's or fwb's and a person comes along wanting to offer me more aka be a BF/GF then I'm going to take them up on it. While you're fooling around not knowing what you want and just wanting to have fun without going anyplace I'll take the love that's being offered. You make the choice on where you would like to be on the list.

So with all of this said is it clear yet? Sure we may start out as fb or even fwb but it's not as satisfying as having a steady partner one can goto and share their heart with. There are no chains or games in my dictionary unless it deals with bondage or roleplay. So man up and stop being afraid, you can still fuck whomever you want just like I can unless we both agree on otherwise. What have you to lose?

redmustang91 58M  
8924 posts
3/7/2006 8:07 am

Sounds fair. I think there are emotions involved at every level of relationship. Some evolve and grow, and some do not for various reasons.

mosher15 38M
2 posts
3/7/2006 11:50 am

WELL ITHINK THat life's a bitch then u marry one so fuck all others and enjoy life

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3/8/2006 5:02 pm

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