I JUST WANTED TO MAKE A FRIEND.....  

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8/26/2006 10:59 pm

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8/27/2006 12:47 am

I JUST WANTED TO MAKE A FRIEND.....


WELL I MET A NICE MAN HERE AND WE DECIDED TO MEET UP. WE HAD A FEW LAUGHS AND SOON WE DECIDED TO GO FARTHER. WE BOTH WANTED THE SAME THING. NOTHING MORE, WE UNDERSTOOD EACH OTHER'S SITUATION AND THAT WAS THAT. I WILL CALL HIM "JOHN."
WELL JOHN CALLED ME AND SAID HE WAS GOING TO THE AdultFriendFinder MEET AND GREET. ASKED IF I WANTED TO GO. I KNEW HE WAS TAKING HIS GIRLFRIEND, BUT ALSO HE HAD A FRIEND HE MET IN MAY WHO I WILL CALL "JOANIE" WHO WAS GOING TO BE THERE. HE WAS JUST BEING KIND AND THOUGHT SHE AND I MIGHT GET A LONG BECAUSE MINE AND HER SITUATIONS WERE ALMOST ALIKE. HE WAS JUST BEING KIND AND IS REALLY A NICE GUY. WELL JOANIE AND I MET AND TALKED AND I THOUGHT SHE WAS NICE TOO.
WHILE AT THE PARTY JOANIE TELLS ME THAT JOHN IS A GREAT LOVER AND REALLY LOVES TO PLEASE A WOMAN. I JUST SMILED AND SAID NOTHING MORE. I FIGURED JOHN DID NOT TELL HER HOW WE KNEW ONE ANOTHER AND THAT WAS FINE WITH ME. I MEAN WE ARE ADULTS, WHO REALLY KISSES AND TELLS? SO I JUST SIMPLY WHISPERED TO JOHN ABOUT WHAT I WAS TOLD THINKING IT WAS FUNNY. HE SEEMED UPSET THAT SHE MADE THE STATEMENT SO OPENLY. HE ASKED WHAT I SAID AND I TOLD HIM I JUST SMILED. I CAN'T REMEMBER AT WHAT POINT BUT WE DECIDED WE WOULD NOT SHARE THE NATURE OUR FRIENDSHIP WITH HER. AT THE END OF THE NIGHT I GAVE HER MY NUMBER AND TOLD HER TO CALL IF SHE EVER WANTED TO GO SHOPPING OR OUT OR EVEN IF SHE JUST WANTED TO TALK.
THREE DAYS LATER SHE CALLED AND ALL SHE COULD TALK ABOUT WAS JOHN. IT WAS CLEAR SHE HAS GREAT FEELINGS FOR HIM. IT IS CLEAR THOUGH THAT JOHN DIDN'T WANT TO CHANGE HIS SITUATION. SO I DECIDED I WOULD INVITE HER TO A FAMILY BAR B QUE AND MAYBE SHE COULD HAVE SOME FUN. BUT SHE ASKED THAT I INVITE JOHN. SO I LEFT HIM A MESSAGE ABOUT IT, BUT HE COULD NOT MAKE IT.
I CALLED JOANIE TO TELL HER THAT JOHN COULD NOT MAKE THE BAR B QUE. THAT IS WHEN SHE DECIDED TO TELL ME SHE KNEW JOHN AND I WERE MORE THAN ONLINE FRIENDS. JOHN HAD TOLD HER. FOR A HALF HOUR SHE DRILLED ME ABOUT WHAT WE HAD DONE. DID I MENTION JOHN HAS A GIRLFRIEND? AND JOANIE IS NOT IT! THE WAY SHE SPOKE TO ME ONE WOULD HAVE THOUGHT SHE WAS THE GIRLFRIEND. SHE WANTED TO KNOW WHERE WE WERE TOGETHER, HOW MANY TIMES WE WERE TOGETHER, WHAT WE DID, DO I HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM, DO I INTEND TO SEE HIM AGAIN, WHAT WILL I DO IF HE CALLS ME, WAS IT GOOD.
MY HEAD WAS SPINNING. I FELT GUILTY. THAT IS UNTIL I GOT OFF THE PHONE. I REALIZED SHE ONLY WANTED TO BE MY FRIEND TO GET INFORMATION ABOUT JOHN. SHE KEPT TAKING LITTLE JABS AT ME, SUCH AS "I DON'T HAVE SEX WITH PEOPLE I DON'T HAVE FEELINGS FOR", "JOHN JUST FEELS SORRY FOR PEOPLE AND IS NICE TO THEM." "JOHN THINKS I AM A GREAT LOVER." "I KNOW YOU HAD A DATE WITH SOMEONE ELSE TODAY." THEN ASKED ME NOT TO MENTION TO JOHN THAT WE TALKED AND SHE CONFRONTED ME, OR SHOULD I SAY DRILLED ME?
AT FIRST I WAS MAD AT JOHN. I FELT HE SHOULD HAVE TOLD ME THAT HE TOLD HER THE TRUTH. THEN I BEGAN TO WONDER. DID SHE TRICK IT OUT OF ME? JOANIE SAID SHE FELT IT IN HER HEART. BUT SHE IS SO NUTS SHE PROBALLY BOTHERED HIM UNTIL HE CONFESSED. I HAVEN'T TALKED TO JOHN YET.
NOW I SIT AND LAUGH. I MEAN WHEN I THINK ABOUT IT I GOT USED AND BETRAYED FROM AdultFriendFinder BY A GIRL I WAS JUST TRYING TO MAKE FRIENDS WITH......NO WONDER IT IS HARD TO TRUST OTHERS ON AdultFriendFinder.

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