not getting what you want from your partner  

3 posts
2/28/2005 9:09 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

not getting what you want from your partner

I know that a lot of us suffer from this and that's why we are here.

My story:

I have been married for almost two years and our sex life has come to almost a halt already. Sex was awesome while we were dating. She wasn't afriad to try new things, we would go to see strippers, had sex in public places, she would give me oral as I drove... Things were a lot of fun.
Now, sex with her sucks! It almost always has to be me on top and we go weeks without having sex now. She just doesn't ever seem in the mood.
She's very beautiful, but I feel like I have a Corvette in the garage, but it doesn't run.

She wants to start having kids now, so the sex we do have is for only one purpose.

I'm so disapointed in myself for marrying someone like this.

Cathy_Dave 55M/55F

2/28/2005 6:53 pm

I think it's sad when women do that to a's almost as if they use the sex to get a hold of the guy then figure they don't have to anymore.Hmmm no wonder some married guys screw around

1 post
3/1/2005 9:41 am

I was always against cheating on spouses, but now that I'm wearing those shoes, I see why so many do it. For most people, sex is a basic need, and if that need isn't being fulfilled, then it drives you crazy. Marriage isn't suposed to be like a business partnership.

rm_Lickableones 60M/37F
26 posts
3/1/2005 4:59 pm

TALK TO HER!!!!! Dude, this is a woman's point of view here, and trust me I feel your pain' tell her how you feel. Maybe she doesn't know you feel this way, maybe she isn't fully satisfied, maybe she thinks having a baby will make things better....and that is not hte way to go. Please do not go along with having a baby with her if you are not satisfied with your sex life. I fyou want things to get better, or at least get her to notice your feelings, talk to her. Don't end up having a baby and cheating, or even worse staying married for the sake of the child and being totally unhappy.

Hope I was able to help and good luck.

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