Every guy NEEDS to EARN his whisker biscuits :P  

Iwakura16Eyes 38F
603 posts
5/13/2006 8:35 pm

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9/26/2006 6:58 pm

Every guy NEEDS to EARN his whisker biscuits :P

1. Lick her like an ice cream cone… (yes plz) Big soft licks from stem to stern with a wide flat tongue stimulate all the nerves in her genital area. Go deliciously slow to make her feel like a yummy dessert being savored, or speed it up a bit and focus more on the clitoral area to push her towards orgasm.

2. Dive in. Build up the intensity level gradually. Once you're into it, use your whole face. Bury yourself in her pussy, get your tongue in as far as possible, use your nose for more pressure. Not only does this feel good physically, it lets her know you are really into her taste and smell. (Hint: if your eyelids aren't sticky, you're not doing it right. )

3. Insert two fingers in her vagina while licking her clit. Curl those fingers up towards your tongue, capturing her clit and G-spot between your mouth and fingers. As your tongue licks up pull down with your fingers; get a rhythm going.

4. Let her straddle your face. If lying back to be licked is too passive for her, let her hop on top. From there she can control the pressure and area of contact. To make this position even more fun, get tied down to the bed before she mounts you, and maybe she'll even boss you around with firm directives: "stick your tongue out!", "open your mouth!" "suck it boy", and so on. Bottomy munchers will, well, lick it up.

5. Mix it up. If all you do is lick up and down, up and down, (knock it off, ya damn fencepainter! ), chances are that it'll get boring to your partner after a while. Vary your movements, add pressure, use your lips, breath and teeth in addition to your tongue, change positions, use your hands….Get your whole creative body involved. (doing the same shit can make us lose our lil clits too--it'll retract under the hood of skin it lives by and that sucks)

6. If it ain't broke, don't fix it. Most women orgasm in response to rhythmic stimulation, so if you're in a groove that is building her up, don't suddenly change what you're doing. Finding the balance between variety and consistency is the art to being an oral expert. i cannot emphasize this advice enough...

7. Play the part. Combine your oral sex experiences with a variety of different erotic attitudes. Are you worshipping her pussy or are you controlling her with your tongue? Are you mystic lovers building an erotic energy ball together? Whatever your attitude, the psychic space you play in can make your sex connection that much hotter.

8. Suck her into your mouth. Gentle suction is a nice variation on the licks and downward pressure of most cunnilingus. While you've got a nice piece of her sucked in your mouth, lick it while maintaining the suction.

9. Add toys. Toys are a natural complement to oral play. Check in with your partner about whether she’d like a G-spot vibrator inside of her while you’re licking away. You might also like experimenting with edible gels that heat when you blow on them.

10. Love your job. Oral is best when both people love it. Doing it should feel really good and exciting to the giver. As good as it is for her, it hopefully is for your mouth. It's something you're doing together. If you don't want to do it, don't. Performing sex because you feel obliged will kill that spark of sexual vitality in you quicker than anything. Follow the spark of your desire and you can't go wrong.

EDIT: don't forget that some women (like me! ^--^) like to have their nipples gently sucked or played with when yer messing around down there, too! (I swear to god there is a direct line from my nipples to my clit)

Djeeper1987 48M

5/13/2006 9:18 pm

Practice makes perfect. Now if I can just get a subject, a beautiful woman say like you, or not. lol
Thanks for the tip.

Carpe Diem

rm_LoyalCumpany 47M
3204 posts
5/13/2006 9:20 pm

Well written, articulate, and yet strangely arousing. Now if I could only find someone to practice this lesson on...

I am JoJo the Circus Boy!

Iwakura16Eyes 38F

5/13/2006 9:44 pm

forgive me if I feel compelled to be a guinea pig as far as oral is concerned... *evil grin*

redmustang91 58M  
8935 posts
5/13/2006 10:07 pm

Good advice, but I think I need a live practical demonstration...

ProtonicMan 49M

5/13/2006 11:22 pm

Thanks, Iwakura. I picked up a new idea or two.

My main concern lately isn't making the woman happy, though. I'm worried about my tongue being atrophied from lack of use.


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