rm_I_NV_Satiety 48F
206 posts
8/9/2006 9:29 pm

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I am at a crossroads. On the north side of the street is a man that I am desperately crazy about. On the south is a man I could potentially be crazy about.

On the north side there is doubt, frustration, aggravation. There is lust, friendship, solidarity and promise. There are broken promises, lies and lack of satisfaction. Whatever there is...there is something there...something there.

On the south side is excitement, attention, the promise of fun to be had. There is lust, a budding friendship, and plenty of sexual tension. There is the promise of something more....something more.

I cannot travel both roads. My head knows the path to take, but my heart is stubborn and won't let him go.

Whatever I do...I can't stay here. It's time to make a move.

rm_Pugsly43 48M

8/9/2006 10:00 pm

An interesting dilema. To go with what you know, but have been disappointed in (yet still long to make the situation better) or to go with something new that can only offer promise.

Life is short go with what offers the potential. See you on the Southside.

SecretEarNoTears 48F  
767 posts
8/10/2006 12:00 am

Perhaps without the broken promises & lies there could be all other...perhaps if both parties can let them go...

Interesting, as I have also been faced with this. On my 'north side'...I let go...pushed out of my mind all of his lies and broken promises...but he could never.

The 'south side' just another breeding ground if one can not let go of the past...

Once I let go I was able to enjoy a 're-bound' with the south side...

Hopefully your road is a two-way street

pierd 53M
222 posts
8/10/2006 10:07 pm

Trust is like a crystal glass - once shattered it can not be restored.

"[...] broken promises, lies [..]" - I'd leave the source of those and try my luck elsewhere.

more on my blog,

rm_fyrefit86 59M
1 post
8/11/2006 7:01 am

Hmmm.... The South side of the street always gets more sun.....

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