Are you playing the game?  

INeeditNowPlease 45M/45F
11 posts
5/11/2006 3:30 pm

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8/11/2006 7:52 pm

Are you playing the game?


Or is the game playing you??
How many people I have met or spoken to that don't know how to really live in this lifestyle is astounding to me. Allow me to share some of our drama free ways:
1.) We talk about everything! Nothing is left unsaid; BEFORE we leave the house!
2.) We are not in competition! With each other, or anyone else!
3.) Playing alone or together, we still share everything about this lifestyle with each other. Thats the erotic part of all of this, when you're away from one another and speak to each other about your latest adventures, its the simplest form of foreplay!
4.) Rules are rules, everyone must abide by them, whether they are your rules, or those of the people you chose to associate yourself with.
5.) Don't lump people together. If you know someone is a drama couple, doesn't necessarily mean those around them are. You know what they say about assuming...
6.) All parties MUST! let me repeat... MUST, be on the same page! Don't do this because he or she really wants it. Guess what? A few hours worth of pleasure for one is NOT worth a lifetime of misery for the other.
7.) Always be honest. With everyone! Whether its someone you are interested in or its your partner, you'll get closer to getting what you really desire if you are honest about it at the start.
8.) And finally my husbands famous rule; RESPECT! Respect yourself, your spouse and everyone you come in contact with.


AND FINALLY...the only RELATIONSHIP is with your significant other, everyone and anyone you "play" with are just that, playmates...

Questions? Comments? Concerns? Feel free to drop a line...

honeycomb1974 45M/44F
282 posts
5/11/2006 4:20 pm

Good advice, we hope others will listen! Honey and Runt


HarryTescker 39M

5/18/2006 6:42 am

Someone Finally!

I am so glad to see that I am not the only one who has this kind of problem. Good luck to you trying to solve it!
Let me know what your solution is like...


RISKYBNS 48M

5/21/2006 10:05 pm

Thank you, thank you, thank you! When you are asking for something in your profile and someone responds to you with it, at least give them a reply to let them know what's up. Not directing this comment at you but adding my sentiments to your list. I'd love for you to check my profile and let me know what you think! I'm not that far from you and have a super flexible schedule. hope to hear from you soon,RB


INeeditNowPlease 45M/45F

5/22/2006 9:28 am

Well Riskybns responding to emails and other socialable etiquettes is a whole new laundry list. But I am afraid I have been that person myself. Mainly because I get dozens of emails daily and most come from people who have NOT taken the time to read my profile, or if they have, they think they can change my mind. So I just simply dont reply.


RISKYBNS 48M

5/27/2006 1:43 am

I wouldn't expect your mailbag to be getting lighter anytime soon, you're a strikingly good looking lady. I just became a member at the standard level so I don't have the ability yet to bring up everyone's profile unless asked to join their network(please?haha). If this site works for me and some contacts are made, I'll definitely be upgrading my level. I learned a long time ago that you can't make someone else change, happy or anything else unless they want it. You can make them angry at the drop of a hat though, depending on the person/situation! Take care and be safe. You're a lucky couple, would like to talk again(?), RB.


RISKYBNS 48M

5/27/2006 1:49 am

I wouldn't expect your mailbag to be getting lighter anytime soon, you're a strikingly good looking lady. I just became a member at the standard level so I don't have the ability yet to bring up everyone's profile unless asked to join their network(please?haha). If this site works for me and some contacts are made, I'll definitely be upgrading my level. I learned a long time ago that you can't make someone else change, happy or anything else unless they want it. You can make them angry at the drop of a hat though, depending on the person/situation! Take care and be safe. You're a lucky couple. If you'd like to talk, you can leave a message in riskybns at yahoo . com, I'd love to speak with someone local, RB.


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