IMredi4everythin 56F
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2/16/2006 11:01 am

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Does anyone believe in love at first sight???? Do you believe,think or hope it lasts? Please write and tell me if you do, don't and if you have a story to share. Thank You

52reddog 67M  
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2/17/2006 7:12 pm

Not really. LUST at first sight, Sure, it can & does happen. Any & every good relationship (at least one that can last) has to be built one step at a time . . . because I don't think that you can really love someone until you know them. Whether it's a life-long commitment to a spouse, or a solid realtionship outside marriage, friendship & understanding have to be there for it to be truly satisfying.

IMredi4everythin 56F

2/18/2006 7:54 am

Lust at first sight...great term!!!! But how do you explain that to a friend of mine who swears in love at first sight, got marred 2 weeks later and have been married 32 years???? LOL I do like your statement of lust at first sight though. Probably more accurate.

IMredi4everythin 56F

2/20/2006 9:46 am

I am only going to be here until the end of this week when my man comes back from vacation with his kids.Come on!!Please give me some feedback here!!!!!I want to know what you all are thinking.

rm_swt16nomore 68F

2/22/2006 7:19 am

Hi Lady,
good to see you back. yes, i do believe in love at first sight. even had it happen once many many years ago.fell for this guy big time by just hearing his voice...spectacular voice....when i fianlly saw him a few minutes later i was already in love. it didn't last in that way because of youth and other factors but to this day he still owns a huge part of my heart and soul. we have been back in touch for 8 years now and he is still such a joy.wouldn't give him up for anything. hope that helps.....take care and stay safe

IMredi4everythin 56F

2/22/2006 8:29 am

Hello to you too!!!!! How is everything going with you? I love that story. It didn't really end for you two then did it? Just took a different turn. Wonderful. YOU take care too. Keep in touch.

rm_casomf 55M

2/23/2006 2:21 pm

Interesting question. I agree with reddog, it is really Lust at first sight. I think love is something that is developed over time once you see and experience the other persons good and bad habits, moods, etc. Can people be so attracted to each other and grow together over the years, well I think that is probably something anyone would want. I think the love at first sight is that romantic belief that some people have, the whole fairy tale, happily ever after thing. Not to say two people can’t make it work after getting together quickly but staying together for a long length of time is work.

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