The dread RED X, a note to young ladies  

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9/6/2005 10:24 pm

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The dread RED X, a note to young ladies

I am new to this, but already I am disheartened as I flip thru lists to see the lone red X over AGE. Folks consistently guess my age to be up to ten years younger, I have maintained my same weight that I had when I left high school (NO BEER GUT). Sure, there's less hair in spots, and more in others but I don't feel my chronological age, and look better than allot of dumpy guys half my age. Moreover, I can emphatically say that pretty young girls are wasted on pretty young boys. Myself I confess that from the time I was 16, I only went out with women from 5-10 years older(I married one) at the time they gave up sex and didn't fetter the relationship with personal drama. I possessed neither the depth of character nor the ability to set aside my own ego, for those my age who with I allegedly wished to join souls. I look at young girls now with regret at my short-sightedness, on the verge of weeping at their beauty, innocence, and energy. I would be entirety flattered to any that would simply talk and wouldn't mind my amorous gaze and sighs at their life's' potential, perchance to love--may just have to stay...a dream. I have much to offer, please don't write me off!!!

PrincessKarma 45F
6188 posts
9/9/2005 11:46 pm

Oh, I would never reject you on the basis of age, my dear... nothing like an experienced man My XBF is 45 now, as was an older lover I had at the tender age of 25.

I DO, however, reject you due to your marital status.

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma

MissAnnThrope 57F
11488 posts
9/11/2005 8:45 am

Know what? At 25, I would have rejected you based on age, just as I now reject men in their 60s and 70s. I have never had any interest in any man old enough to be my father. Add to that you have a wife and most likely children, that's more than a red flag to young women, who, in spite of what their profiles say, 9 out of 10 of them are looking for boyfriends and to be loved. Don't believe me? I can introduce you to a number of them. Not to mention, I can introduce you to just as many who are around 25 who consider anyone over 35 old.

You can't change generational views. You can't force people to want you. They know what they like and what they want. You can look, but you can't touch. Now that said, there are plenty of married women your age on this site. Who I can assure you are much better lovers than some 19 year old and won't put your marriage at risk. One thing you missed out on by dating older women when you were young is, young women tend to be psycho, especially when relationships end.

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