Why do you swing?  

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6/24/2006 7:52 am

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Why do you swing?

Have you ever really examined yourself to see why you swing? For us, it is the following. Believe it or not, the both of us married as virgins - which is rare these days. So, we are having exploring together.

Why do you swing? What experiences have you had?

rm_B_O_H_I_C_A 54M
342 posts
6/25/2006 4:55 am

In a sense, the two of you are blessed in your marriage. Too many do their "exploring" without their other half.
I was first introduced to the swinging by a couple who introduced me to others who followed the lifestyle. I discovered that everyone I met were open, honest, avoided "drama" and "head-games" ... and were willing to put up with all of my questions.
I was very lucky to find such a wonderfull group of people for my "introduction" to the swinging lifestyle.
I took what I had learned and went from CA to SC (gotta love the military) and met others. Life continued on and then I moved to WI.
When I got married, my wife made it clear that "we weren't going to be doing any of that", so I dropped out. Now, with my divorce, I am once again looking for friends.
If that doesn't answer the first question, don't hesitate to drop me a line (whether AdultFriendFinder, rocketmail, or YIM). As for the second question...

A Bunch!
I know that doesn't answer much, but I don't think you want me to take up this whole post with my experiences.
Suffice it to say anything from 1-on-1, swapping (hard/soft), 3-somes (MFM/FMF), 4-somes, to more-somes (GB/orgy).

Again, feel free to contact me any time(as a "regular" member I unfortunately cannot innitiate).

rm_B_O_H_I_C_A 54M
342 posts
6/26/2006 4:25 am

Use my handle (with underscores) for the rocketmail or follow my handle with ".rm" for YIM

It seems they won't allow me to keep that info on my profile...

Prof10001 57M  
2622 posts
7/4/2006 9:49 pm


You're correct that it is sad that some end up exploring without their spouse. (for the record, I'm here for the articles. *S*)

It's also sad for a person to be the one who didn't explore when they were single and is now left (caught is too harsh) with a relationship devoid of passion. While I haven't done anything other than visit here, I understand what brings some people to do more.

At least peeking into this lifestyle stimulates the brain a bit.

BTW, great story on Hydra's blog...Lucky guy!


house44444 45M

8/2/2006 7:06 pm

wish I had someone to play with no woman these days so I sort of get left out of allot of stuff would be fun though to try some new things with some fun people

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