Is it always about the sex???  

Huggers8i 34M
2 posts
2/21/2006 4:13 am

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Is it always about the sex???

Well that is the question. It certainly drove me to join this website and it drives me to look my best when I go out.

But when I do meet a girl its not the first thing I wanna do. I need to get to know them a bit. I have to have my mind stimulated in someway by them (god I know this sounds gay to any overly insecure alpha male type), for if they can't show some form of intelligence and can't even listen when your trying to chat... then well what's the point.
Now it's not like I looking for some relationship or anything, I've filled my quota on that one for a little while at least, but I'm not gonna just screw any living thing that just presents it's self.

Although if it wasn't for the sex, I don't think the hunt would be half as fun. I can still meet someone and get a grip of them ( Mentally. Behave) within a short time and still have crazily wild stranger sex in a lift.

Saying all that, some nights I go out and all I want to do is just flirt with as any girls as possible. Just chatting and drinking. Not even trying anything else. And boy is it fun. There's something to be said about good old fashioned courting. I just don't know what. But its fun.

So I suppose what I'm trying to say is that not all guys want to rip your clothes off as soon as they see you. And some if you tried it on them would stop you. But that doesn't make us any less interested its just that you need to play with a different button sometimes.

happyladychat 48F
3740 posts
2/21/2006 5:31 am

I was browsing aimlessly and happened to come by this blog entry of yours. Just by reading what you have written, I would have thought you were older than your age.

Anyway, nice to know your thoughts. I hope most guys on AdultFriendFinder share your sentiments.

Make it your challenge.... turn me ON!!

sassybelle21 33F  
13313 posts
2/21/2006 7:21 am

This is an adult sex site but it shouldn't be all about sex. Different people come on here for different reasons including me and you. And you'll make a lot of friends through blogging Glad that you aren't looking too hard like some desperate men on here. They think about nothing but sex and treat women like a piece of meat Have fun!!

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