Waiting is the Hardest Part  

HotTXpussy4U 49F
2177 posts
7/26/2006 6:44 pm

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7/29/2006 7:01 am

Waiting is the Hardest Part

Having been on the road for the past few months...seems all I do is hurry up and wait. Rust to do this, get it done, then wait for responses. That's work.

But when it comes to talking with guys...they all say they "would wait for me forever"...and what sweet words those are to say - - but how can someone wait forever for someone they have never met.

I know it's a gesture - the politeness. Do they really mean they would save themselves for my return - even though that could be months? Does that mean they have been saving themselves for the past few months, hoping that I will be home any day? Surely they don't think I believe that they will not look at nor talk to another girl until they have met me, do they? How could anyone say such words and truly mean it.

When it comes to sex - or having lack of...I'm only good for so long. I can go a month or maybe even 2 - depending on the circumstances (like being on the road for months and months)...but I will not lie, after 60 days - - I'M LOOKING!!!!! There are only so many nights that I can please myself before I feel the desire to be pleased by another. Or even better, to please another. I don't think you can have one without the other.

Not putting myself into being in committed relationships for long periods of time...I don't have to worry about hurting "my better half"..as I don't have one. And with this job, I find it's better to not even try to have one. Oh sure, in a perfect world - I want one. One for my very own...someone who will be there for me so I don't have to wait, and neither do they.

But until then....

I wait....and wait.....and wait.

gooodslammin7 51M

7/26/2006 11:36 pm

I would only wait through dinner and a movie. If I had it my way. My last date was dinner, Saturday Night Live, and then mind blowing "I didn't know it could be that good" sex. And then she wouldn't answer my emails or calls. She was the one saying she didn't know it could be that good. hmmm. I felt that way too, but she said it, not me. ....lol. But before this date, I waited, and waited...

rm_cliker12 67M
2 posts
7/27/2006 11:09 am

hello hot, and thanks for you gorgeous pic, i could wait a long time for you if i knew you were coming back. I would love to be on your friend list and maybe chat with you some. if you are here send me a buzz and lets get acquainted, thanks again,, hugs and kisses all over

rm_cliker12 67M
2 posts
7/27/2006 11:12 am

hi hotpussy, i love your pic and those gorgeous breasts, if you get this please let me know, i would love to chat iwth you and will wait for you

rm_hockeyfanguy 45M

7/27/2006 5:05 pm

Waiting is deceptive. If I'm gonna wait, I'd want to have more than a few long conversations, if not a one-on-one meeting or two (sex optional). Without a committed relationship, waiting makes no sense; but I can have a special place reserved for one person while I'm having some fun with others. After all, we're all just exploring first, it takes a while to realize whether that's the person we want to be around long-term. If it is, then she's worth waiting for.

Shortly, grand statements being presented early in the relationship (or even before the real relationship begins) are usually a sign of trouble.

Easein2it2 53M

7/27/2006 11:41 pm

Please, come see me! It's been a while but the want has been there since day one! Remember that?

nightnsa 49M  
415 posts
7/28/2006 6:11 am

i am like you...if i go too long i start looking....but i don't ever want to hurt someone

Dallas_Male_35 49M
255 posts
7/28/2006 10:10 am

They say "Good things come to those who wait."

Maybe I'm a little old fashioned (okay, I am, no maybe about it).

If someone is worth it, you wait. Words are powerful, and some people mean what they say.

gnr8nrg 47M

7/28/2006 10:05 pm

Hi HotTX I've only told one woman I'd wait for her. I was young so...As far as looking, 4-8 weeks for me depending on what's going on in my life. It sounds like you're enjoying yourself quite nicely HotTX.

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