Live for the Day  

HotTXpussy4U 49F
2177 posts
2/22/2006 5:02 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Live for the Day

I've been super busy since my return from Mardi Gras. It could be all these new guys I've been talking to. LOL - - How can I like such a diverse group of guys? Just shows how many personalities I have..lol

So in keeping with the theme of my title - I've decided it's finally time to meet some of the guys I've been talking to for awhile. What's the worst thing that can happen? - we don't click? Well, that happens more often than not, right?

I have a few dates planned for the next 7 days - and we will just see how it goes. I met my first guy last night for some games of pool. Just for the record - I won 5-2...lol. He was every bit of a gentleman and we had a fun time playing. I think that playing pool gives you time to converse, flirt and just be yourself - plus I do love whooping up on the guys. Though there were no "sparks" with him....he is still a nice guy to know and I am glad that we got to meet. I've got a feeling he's going to want a rematch in pool...good luck! LOL

I had scheduled a dinner with my former "It's a Date" guy...guess just in hopes that maybe a second chance would change things. But after speaking with him on the phone today - I remember now why things didn't work out. So, I cancelled the dinner - - what's the point? And he didn't seem to be bothered by it - so guess that just goes to show ya....when the signs are pointing OUT the door, might as well just move on.

Not sure what got in my goat to decide all at once that I was ready to meet these guys - - maybe it's a fear of knowing that if I don't try I have no one to blame but myself. I also learned that some guys are just all talk...when I mention that I think it's time we should meet..they become elusive. Very interesting. I'm sure there is some story - but it's not a book I want to read. LOL

With my new found confidence - I'm hoping that I can meet a couple of really cool guys. Why a couple? Well, the chances of the feelings being mutual are slim in this life - - and if just ONE really intrigues me..well, lucky us!

I received an email just a few moments ago that says exactly WHY I am ready to venture of into dating land again......I just love my friends.
Hope you enjoy as well.

Beautifully stated:

As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back.

I will fill ya in on the other dates and how they go. Hopefully fun will be had by all!

Have a wonderful evening everyone!


rm_cant_be_true 39M

2/23/2006 3:11 pm

Good luck with your dates!


ChrisDL 48M

2/23/2006 3:17 pm

Hope you get what you want from your dates. Your last paragraph is just so true!


vanna4u 39F

2/24/2006 12:54 am

wait - didn't you say something about a shopping mall? I'm so confused.


Dallas_Male_35 48M
255 posts
2/24/2006 1:31 pm

Personally, I think that if the guys flirt and then become elusive when you decide to meet, it's because they are either married, or sent fake photos or something.

If they were honest about everything, the whole time, there is nothing to elude from!

Just my thoughts. I do hope you find a great guy. You deserve it.


gnr8nrg 47M

2/24/2006 3:07 pm

Hello HotTX Pool is a great way to get to know someone. I never would have thought of that, thanks I'll keep that in mind. I still haven't met anyone from here, but I think it's because I'll move on at the first sign of no interest. I've read a lot of stuff from women here saying guys keep trying to email and call, yadda, yadda, yadda. So I don't want to be one of those guys who can't take a hint, but I recently found out that sometimes I move on too quickly. Oh well, I'll learn from it, but I meet more people off the net than I do on the net so...I don't know. I hope you have fun with meeting all the guys. If something "sparks" then GRRRREEEAATT! If not, at least you tried. Have a good weekend.


rm_trickroper70 47M

2/24/2006 4:46 pm

Wish you the best of luck....Hard to tell if things were meant to be or not, sometimes it takes more searching than we think.


HotTXpussy4U 49F

2/26/2006 7:46 am

cant be true - Thank You...so far so good

ChrisDL - I do love that last quip....thank you

Vanna4U - LOL...got to love the mall!!

Dallas Male 35 - Absolutely...which is fine. I would rather not get mixed up in all that...so their elusiveness is doing me a favor. Thanks

gnr8nrg - Pool is great...just a more relaxed atmosphere. Plus I'm good, so that helps! You have to give them a chance...how else are ya gonna know? I will be updating....life is funny - so laugh.

trickroper70 - One never knows..but If I walk around with my eyes closed..I will never see.


Dallas_Male_35 48M
255 posts
2/27/2006 1:42 am

Hmm, just how good at pool are you? I used to play so much in college, that I got to take a whole semester off and concentrate on my one-pocket game even more! (Of course, after that, I had to cut down on the pool and study a wee bit!)


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