Just Add Alcohol  

HotTXpussy4U 49F
2177 posts
9/6/2006 4:10 pm

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9/7/2006 2:40 pm

Just Add Alcohol

I guess everyone is the same in some ways - maybe not. When alcohol is added, we all become more "friendly", "looser", "relaxed".

In my case..I've been told recently - I'm more vocal. No - I don't mean I talk more, which I'm sure I do...LOL But when it comes to the goings on in the bedroom...I tend to say what I'm thinking/feeling.

Now I know with time and a comfort level, I'm not about holding anything back - if it feels good, let them know. If you feel like a little giggle, that's cool. It's all about enjoying each other.

I personally don't feel that there is anything I would do after "adding alcohol" that I wouldn't do without it. It might take me a few more minutes to catch on to the idea...but I will get there. I always do.

I didn't always use to be that way - - it's taken many years of experiene (good and bad) to get me to where I'm comfortable with myself. That it's okay to say/moan/cry outloud when things are "right where it feels o-so-good"...and it took many more years for me to able to express "uh, this isn't working this way - let's try it another". I've had guys in the past who seem to take offense to me telling 'em that last part. I guess they thought they "knew it all". And they probably did very well...but at that moment, just wasn't working for me - so I spoke up.

But I don't think that's what was meant when I was told "Your more vocal when you drink" - - and now, well yeah - I feel a bit pressured to be more vocal in my normal self having sex. I don't go out and drink that much...so more often than not, if I'm doing the deed - I'm sober. Now I did ask him "what's the real difference between then and now, besides "vocal" ".... and he said "you show more passion without the alcohol".

Hmmm..and I thought "passion" was a good thing.

I'm glad he felt comfortable enough to say exactly what was on his mind when I said "talk to me" (that's an inside joke)...as communication is key to any relationship - sexual or not. So we will just keep "talking" and see what happens.

How about you?? Yes, YOU - reading my blog....

How is sex different when you drink??

Last Longer?

Don't Last as long?

Scream and Yell and hit the roof?

Cum harder?

Multi-Orgasmic? (oh yes, that is me) hee hee

Have no memory of the sexual experience??

Is adding a little alcohol preferred?

I rarely post asking too many questions - but the curiosity has piqued my interest.

Inquiring minds want to know...

Alannc4900 61M

9/6/2006 4:31 pm

Up to a point ... alcohol is preferred as I last longer.
Beyond that point and there is no mixed sex and alcohol, cuz there's no sex.

The next day I either don't remember or remember it as WAY better than it was. You know ... pounded her good ... only to find out I wasn't hard ... lol

aries_flames 49F

9/6/2006 6:19 pm

I prefer to go with no alcohol or very little. I'm the same with either. If I have too much alcohol, it just dulls the experience for me.

I can't imagine that I could possibly get MORE vocal on alcohol since I have no inhibitions about speaking my mind when completely sober!


315 posts
9/6/2006 11:00 pm

sex? What is that? I Think I prefer sex without Alcohol but it has been so long I really do not know!

actually_yesss 54M

9/7/2006 7:06 am

For me, alcohol doesn't affect performance, but it can enhance the experience. I don't have any inhibitions, but it does make me a little louder and less concerned if the neighbors might hear!!

In my experience, tequila makes women do wild things. My daughter will never be allowed to drink tequila!!

rm_bumm069 53M/48F

9/7/2006 7:45 am

Sometimes a little alcohol can help especially when nervous but other than that it can ruin the moment, I like to just be me. As for sex to much alcohol will spoil an evening of bliss

ZZ_Todd 60M

9/7/2006 12:15 pm

I guess I could be a poster boy for reasons not to drink when sex is emminent... I'm a happy drunk, but a quick drunk... I pass out soon after! Nope... this guy don't drink and fuck!

HotTXpussy4U 49F

9/7/2006 2:40 pm

I love the responses!! I agree - it can be too much of a good thing (alcohol that is)... don't mind a little buzz, I prefer to remember every buzz that touches me!

Thanks everone!!! {=}

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