SO MAYBE - i didn't explain myself  

HotHeadDr 44F
310 posts
9/6/2006 11:38 am

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12/21/2006 10:27 pm

SO MAYBE - i didn't explain myself

OMG- however did i know that you guys would answer me in the the way you have ....LOL "just give me a clue" post! Perhaps there isn't really anyway for me to explain this one in such a way - LOL ... ok - I guess it's cause of the way I am - I mean - seriously - I'm one cool ass bitch! hehehehe - here's the way i see it - pussy comes a dime a dozen - a fuck is a fuck is a fuck - even though of course I wouldn't want my man (when I have one) out fucking around on me - but if he was going to - well then hell I would much rather him just fuck some bitch and call it a day - cause once there is any other connection between them - that's when I have to draw the line - I mean it's not like i wanna know about his adventures - don't rub it in my face - you know - and if one of your bitches is falling in love with then YOU ARE SPENDING WAY to much time with her! So I guess when i was asking about why guys lie - i was kinda asking for me - and unless you really know me - you really can't answer it for me! Cause really - I'm not gonna start asking questions I might not like the answer to - but if there is something that I'm pretty much sure about - and I ask - PLEASE just tell me the truth - cause i would rather have you hurt me - and me cry and deal with it and it's done - then lie to my face and betray me - cause betrayl... IS NO FUCKIN JOKE ... so I guess - you guys are just dumb.... BUT DAMMIT I LUV YA!

if I cry give me a reason force me to my knees and use me as you will

rm_matureman_27 46M

9/6/2006 10:03 pm

You know it all
I agree with the last about lying and betrayal... And people are not dumb. They are mostly in denial and afraid to admit what they are upto. :B

HotHeadDr replies on 9/7/2006 1:45 pm:
and I don't understand that - I know women do it as well - but seriously would make things so much easier and LESS DRAMA if when asked the truth was told

rm_jm1592000 41M

9/8/2006 9:12 am

Well, most guys have dealt with enough "clingers" that they tend to lie to avoid those issues, but then those are also the guys that cannot tell the personality type they are dealing with. I find that being honest and upfront tends to hurt a lot of women's feelings but it is still the best way to deal with anyone.

subgunner 74M

9/8/2006 9:45 am

I think that if a spouse is unfaithful then I don't think that there is much future in the relationship.Unconditional forgiveness is as if never happened.I don't think humans are capable of it.

HotHeadDr replies on 9/8/2006 7:40 pm:
well i disagree with you on that - I know - cause I have done it!

HotHeadDr replies on 9/8/2006 7:41 pm:
I forgot - the betrayl was the hard thing

sexymanguy1970 42M
15 posts
9/12/2006 10:18 am

Well thats funny you asked that question. My Spouse cheated on me for awhile with my best friend. I treat my wife like a princess let here stay at home and be a stay at home wife. I work my but off to provide things for her and i was treated with no respect. I really hurts. Yes nice guys to get the short end of the stick. I wait we were talking about this issue on hand.Yes it hurts more when there is a connection between the cheaters.Someday may be we can chat.
Im a LOL

HotHeadDr replies on 9/12/2006 12:25 pm:
Your not a loser sweets ... and that sucks! Its women like that that make it so hard for us who are good and faithful (when committed) to get a good man .... *sigh....

sexymanguy1970 42M
15 posts
9/12/2006 12:56 pm

I know I'm not a loser but it really takes your manhood away when these things happen. Getting it back is hard. Coming to this site is my approach to retrieve my man hood O~_-_-_-_->>>>>>J(manhood)Wow just hooked it. Later Gater LOL

spongesoaker 52M

9/13/2006 5:08 am

Hey Doc-Seems to me you want it both ways kitten-a man at your side but if if strays he should not be into that relationship. Lets be real-causual relationships do not exist unless you are void of emotions or fucking a stranger. If a guy avoids telling you the truth maybe it is because he wants it both ways also-but the truth doesn't set you free it sets you loose. If a guy has a non manogamous relationship with you it really isn't any of your business who he spends time with or fucks to be honest. If you want to get in on the guys fun for some three way action with his squeeze I am sure he will let you in but otherwise move on to a guy who wants to be with you for you.

sexgoddess1275 42F
66 posts
9/15/2006 9:13 pm

Dam it girl... I must agree 100% on this here issue.. Nothing gabs the knife in deeper and twists it then someone lying to ur face when you know dam well what the truth is.Lying bastards should just all be put out of their misery Tootles
Smoochies to ya my Biiiioootttttccccchhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

sexymanguy1970 42M
15 posts
9/21/2006 4:46 pm

Sound likeyou hacve some hostility in your comment too SEXGoddess Oh well we just cope and move one

LOL Later Gater

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