Last Night Chat and Question for You Men or Women?  

Honey_Dew_you 46F
57 posts
3/14/2006 9:29 pm

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Last Night Chat and Question for You Men or Women?

Last night Chat was awkward, we talk about his burn out with college and his troubles with girls’ friends. Pre-ejaculation and how he can’t control himself and his fears with sexual toys.

Now he told me no toy can replace a man, yet he cums pretty fast and he thinks he’s a pretty passionate man. I asked him if he massages and give sweet kisses down his girl’s back and treat her like a goddess.

(If no toy can not replace a man’s manly hood then what are the sexual hang-ups for men fearing in using them to prolong the sexual moments? Doesn’t the Toy help speed up the sexual climax with in the woman and to help save some kind of certain amount of energy a man must use to reach that desire that most women want to achieve between her and her partners?)

His responds was “UM no” I asked him to define passionate for me. He didn’t really come up with the correct answer or even remotely have a clue. He told me opening the car door and walking her to her door, waiting for the moment to be invited in...ECT.

NO, to my understanding and if others choose to begged for an argument on that be my guess. What he was talking about is being a Gentleman …IE…Chivalry.

The Question for the Night is:

To you what is the fine line in Being Passionate and Being a Gentleman?

rm_yukonpaul 52M
1120 posts
3/14/2006 10:02 pm

Being passionate is total love, attention, and devotion. Putting your heart and soul into what you love. A person can be passionate for their job or hobby(artist's, musician's, etc.). Your lover is passionate for you. A gentleman is polite and exercises good manners.

Hungry4you1973 44M
13 posts
3/14/2006 10:37 pm

Chivalry is important. To me it comprises those social actions that demonstrate that you respect and treat a woman with consideration. Opening doors, offering her your coat if she is cold, etc. This is something that I generally try to do for all women.

Passion however is something completely different. It is much more intimate. Passion must be shared. Passion is focusing on only the person you are with so that there is nothing but the two of you. It is electricity initially passed through a look or a gentle kiss that builds in a rush as kisses intensify and bodies press before culminating in what can be a frighteningly intense, rapturous, lovemaking. Passion makes your body tingle, all of your senses more acute, and your heart race. The heat of passion can be carried by words, looks, and touches. It happens when you find someone who opens up to you, you open yourself back, and you find that you excite each other at a primal level.

cstrout69 45M
2 posts
3/15/2006 12:10 am

I guess passion to me would be sharring a special moment together between two people. A candle lit dinner, the two of you holding each other tight with the lights down low watching a romantic movey or a nice relaxing hottub with a couple of drinks.Opening the car door, offering a warm coat, etc. is just being a gentleman, wich is also very important.

muscles4u2have 56M
1645 posts
3/15/2006 10:56 am

Passion is in your heart! Passion is the desire that over whelms your body with a need to fullfill the others needs. Passion is that gut wrenching feeling of what is to come next. The question is lust and passion. You lust for someone and the passion will come automatically.

Being a gentleman has nothing to do with passion!! I do believe that experience, that comes with age will help this poor gent.

I could sure show you what passion is!!

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Honey_Dew_you 46F

3/15/2006 9:55 pm

Thank you and Thank You for your in-depth comments. I gain a lot from them.

Honey_Dew_you 46F

3/15/2006 10:00 pm

muscles4u2have -

I love what I read so far in your blog. I'm terribly sorry I couldn't comment. I work way too much today. I probably need to do this on the weekends.

rm_BobWen 58M

3/16/2006 7:48 am

Being Passionate and Being a Gentleman:
Hmmmm never thought of those two together. A gentlemanwould walk you home through a bad area of town to get you home safe. A gentlema takes care of your needs and wants in a way that always makes you feel comportable. He may not be your lover but he always has a smile and a wink for you, but may not go beyond that. If you call him for help at 2 in the morning, he will assist you in anyway possible.

The passionate man will also smile and wink at you but will place himself close to you to find out who you are and what you like. Red roses will appear at your work with a note that does not tell who he is, but gives a clue. He will touch you softly and maybe walk up behind you, he will kiss your neck to say hello. His whispers are only for you and he will do anything to to excite you in his presence.
As you become lovers his attentions will be toward exploring you and your body to give you pleasures and the passion you enjoy. Touching, kissing, hugging and more will await you as he gets to know you. You can be both, but with your lover you need to be the passion of her soul.


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