You Will Not Believe This............  

HeartlessBitch69 47F
6876 posts
6/22/2006 11:14 pm

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6/25/2006 7:49 pm

You Will Not Believe This............

I did not get any sleep whats so fucking ever!

The minute I went to close my eyes, my husband started sending me text. He said how much it hurt him to see me cry. And he never wanted to hurt me.

While he is sending text, his mother calls me. I guess he called her and fessed up to what he had done. Then his sister starts sending me text, wanting to know if I need to talk and if I am ok?

He really fucked up telling the women in his family he had cheated on me and was wanting to end our marriage.

I told his family to not pick me over him and not to be mad at him and that whatever comes of us is what was ment to be. I believe in fate, and destiny.

When he got off of work tonite he brought me dinner to work, and said we needed to talk when I got home from work.

So our talk was no yelling, no tears, just talking.

So how did our talk end? Well, If I want to have a steady sexual relationship with someone I can.

As he put it, he will have his life, I will have my life and we will have our lives. And I told him, "That would be an open marriage!"

So I guess this is where we are now. I do not know how this is going to work out, but it sure as hell buys me some time on figuring out what I am going to do with my future!

No more tears! I am done cryin! Now it is no more sneeking around,and makin up stories to get out the house. For either of us.

But he did mention maybe finding a swingers club. I'm not sure about that!


LustyTaurus 49M
21253 posts
6/22/2006 11:52 pm

Cool...its a start Baby!

willing2tryit42 41M
1141 posts
6/23/2006 12:19 am

Its better than nothing...... good luck, and you can swing down here anytime!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

rollingrock61 57M

6/23/2006 12:23 am

He wants his cake and to eat it too. He's just trying to get your permission to fuck around in the open instead of behind your back. This way you'll stick around and help pay the bills. Find yourself a good looking man whore that you can trust and get him to go out with you to places where you know you'll be seen by your husbands friends. Don't waste any time, he probably thinks your such a heartless bitch that no one would want you. You no better , so rub his face in it and see what he does.
Your probably more woman than he can handle, mentally and physically anyway.

Nightguy_1961 56M
4866 posts
6/23/2006 12:34 am

Well HB, it's a start....just keep the lines of communication open between the two of you...good luck.

NG61...slipping back into the shadows...

redrobin012057 61F

6/23/2006 1:24 am

((((((((((((((Hugs Sweetie)))))))))))))))) the decision is up to you.Maybe its time you set up some ground rules if this is going to be an open marriage for both of you.Crossing my fingers and anything else I can cross

HeartlessBitch69 47F

6/23/2006 2:43 am

LustyTaurus--I hope so. Ya know I like it when you call me baby

willing2tryit42--I dunno if you could handle me

rollingrock61--My mind is whirling with ideas!

Nightguy_1961--I know I will, but I think he will still be keepin secrets no matter how open we agree to be.


(What the fuck is this shit..?? *rolls eyes*)

6/23/2006 6:27 am

Good now you can start focusing on YOU and WHAT YOU WANT AND WHERE YOU WANT TO GO AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO WITH YOUR BEAUTIFUL LIFE....Ready is so happy for you


skyking412004 54M
5363 posts
6/23/2006 7:39 am

_____Sounds like it's a little better than what you two have had. At least now, there are rules to the game.

ToolsMulesFaker 41M
163 posts
6/23/2006 7:43 am

How long does it take to get a U.S. passport ?.. come on over sexy loads to show you over here and ill supply the Digestives and Hobnobs..

007sexy40plus 52F  
7603 posts
6/23/2006 8:44 am

That is good that you are communicating. I know things will work out for you. I am still here for you regardless of what happens.

Friends to the end>>>>>>>

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"

MissAnnThrope 57F
11488 posts
6/23/2006 10:47 am

Cool. Just don't tell him you're already seeing someone. No matter what, it won't go over well.

But just in case, get that seperate bank account going.

Sweetpickles69 48F

6/23/2006 1:54 pm

Good Luck with the "open marriage" thing. Me & my ex tried to swing after our divorce, but it didn't work out, he still got jealous. I hope it all works out for you, if not we need to send Timberwolf a plane ticket, or have him send you one!

Peace & Blog On,


Looking4sex44240 55F

6/25/2006 3:13 pm

When I was separated my ex wanted to live together, but not be together...bring anyone home i wanted to, be like room mates. I couldn't do it to weird for me. So I told him to get out lol. Hey I think it's great you guys can work it out. Swinging might make it easier on both of you.

HeartlessBitch69 47F

6/25/2006 7:49 pm

Looking4sex44240--Nobody will be coming to the house!

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