A single guy ??  

Hard_Dude69me 49M
63 posts
1/20/2006 3:15 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

A single guy ??

Ok... it seems as if no one is interested in a single guy anymore?

Is that true ladies? or gentlemen?

My experience is showing that most of the "women" on the system are now attached and "not looking to change thier lives just add to it" and the frequency of "no strings" statements seems to be on the rise.... so as a single man I am going to straight out ask you ladies...

Post something here... no worries I will not start sending you message after message... or naked pics... or any pics for that matter... unless of course you ask me too... lol...

Really love to hear what you ladies think??


rm_wetkitty1963 55F

1/20/2006 7:31 am

Well HD, I can only speak for myself being "married and not wanting to change that". Humm, Why am I here/what am I looking for?

These are a few of the reasons that have crossed my mind:

1. Looking for the attention I’m not getting at home.
2. Thinking of leaving the guy, would anyone be interested in me?
3. Curious to know what sort of men are looking for women today?
4. Want to find new friends just for chatting.
5. Want to have a one-night stand.
6. Discovering things about yourself sexually. (threesome, bi-curious, etc.)
7. Revenge.
8. Just playing.

Now the flip side to that is, why don’t you get any response to your emails?

1. He just wants sex. He just wants sex. He just wants sex.
2. Too young, too old, too needy, too rude, too gross.
3. He’s married ‒ doesn’t want long-term commitment with me.
4. He’s single ‒ what’s wrong with him?
5. He’s divorced ‒ baggage.
6. He will laugh at me. God to be 25 again!
7. What the hell am I doing!?
8. Yikes, AIDS.
9. Yikes, Paul Bernardo

So with all of these variables it is a challenge to find that "special" one. But in my rose colored world, I believe that things will fall in to place when the time is right. In the meantime, if you don't try, you will never succeed at whatever you are doing!

PS - If you want to send me naked pics, I'm asking -- that should be on my first list!

Kitty <^^>

VeryCurious1960 57F

1/23/2006 6:42 pm

I have to admit that I am getting tired of reading the profiles because they are all starting to say the same thing. If you were to read 8 out of 10 mens profiles they all say basically the same thing....No commitment sex! If you can read between the lines they are usually saying they are either married or in a relationship of some sort. So give me a truly single man anyday.

I get alot of emails and honestly don't answer them all. I see profiles that I would love to respond to and don't. Rejection is a killer. In the back of my mind I am always asking myself... am I to old for him, will he laugh at me, is he just out to add another notch to his bedpost. So I second guess my self.

So give me a truly single man anyday. But make him real.

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