Who said???  

HaHaPink4You 50M/46F
7 posts
11/15/2005 6:44 am

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10/2/2011 10:29 pm

Who said???

Who said you had to be straight, bi, gay or lesbian anyway? These are only labels or tags. Why label something as special as your sexuality. Which, by the way, is yours.....no one else's and no one can take it away from you or change it. It can be stifled! I am a victim of a stifled sexuality. But, not anymore! I see this frequently. The "bi" husband looking for a "bi" couple. He needs to be free. Free to be who he is. (only an example) We frequently get emails stating "I'm not gay, but...." They are usually commenting on the attraction to the male in our profile. When Mr.HaHaPink is asked if he is gay, he says, "not today, but I may be tomorrow! or "today I am, but maybe not tomorrow." Why tag yourself anything? Be who you are, not what others label you.

ComfortablyMe32 48M

11/15/2005 8:28 am

good point

rm_lickmepretty 52F
851 posts
11/19/2005 4:51 am

Hi, welcome to blog!

Are you aware there is a new group created for bloggers and their readership to meet and frolic in the chat room? (A place for serious discussion as well)

A group where interesting blog posts will be “spot-lighted” along with the links of how to get there. A place where new kids on the block can actually get seen as well as the predominant “hierarchy”.

A place where ideas can flow--from suggested blog topics, to writing "critiques", to directions on how to better use the elements of color, photos, and font style/size to make your blog more eye appealing; as well as instructions on how to better use linking to other posts.

Being that this is an adult site, we will also have a group post running where writers and their followers can indicate where they're from so maybe you might actually be able to meet some folk "local" to you.

Flirtatious banter is encouraged--crude obscene assaults will not be tolerated and are subject to deletion.

So...Stop in and have a little fun over your cup o' joe!

Here is a link to the group Blog Cafe, look forward to meeting you there!

Hampmeister 58M

11/19/2005 8:17 pm

And I think the Cafe may have paid off already, as I would never have read your blog if we hadn't happened to both be members. See my blog where I liken gender preference to a scale, with straight or gay just being the extreme ends. Am I straight? Well, I've never been with a mann, been with several women. I was also once in a four way relationship, albeit the other couple was clear across the country from my wife and I, and the other man had most decidedly been with men, and wanted to be with me, and I wanted it just as much. So am I bi? I have a marked preference for women, as did he.

The truth of it is, if gay and straight are the ends of the scale, and bi is the midpoint, I'm none of the above. If bi is anything in between, I'd bet the vast majority of humanity is bi. Labels are for those who want everything nice and neat in its box, where most don't fit if the truth be known.

pleaser2ladies69 57M

11/29/2005 3:44 pm

Not sure that the "Cafe" pays off. I like Mrs. HaHaPink view of this. And I suppose that Hampmeister is probably correct. The one thing that I know is that everyone is different and it is a crying shame that we have to be classified. From what I have seen on here is that we are all loking for sex. Whether it is with a man, woman, couple, or group.

HaHaPink4You 50M/46F

1/24/2006 12:32 am

It's been a while. Sorry for the delay. My thoughts on labels remain the same......judgement remains the mastermind behind the name-calling and labeling. Who has any right to judge anothers sexuality. Not I! Nor, do I want mine judged. We enjoy company and meeting new people. Sex is great. A new friend or two is excellent, with or without sex. Sex is not our goal here. We like to meet like-minded people. Just that!!!

boscobearfoot 48M
1 post
8/30/2006 7:06 am

Very good point ha-ha. You are a very sexy couple. People like myself who enjoy sex without inhibitions do not judge. those who judge have some hidden or shameful unfulfilled fantasies.

1goodtimeforall 54M/51F
16 posts
1/21/2007 1:08 am


like ur post.

we, too, hate labels and one's activities and desires should not be labeled or judged.

to all the judgers, homo-phobics, etc..- that is your choice- we say don't do it or at the least, keep it to yourself.

we just want to love each other and experience our desires as we see fit with the right people whether it be ourselves or others. mostly it is absolutely with ourselves and our being able to discuss our desires and fantasies amongst ourselves.

anyhow, nice post- prefer all persons to be honest in thier desires and needs. if the truth were told, most all would say they at least "thought of" a touch or more or enjoyed a "peek" at least with a same sex member over thier years.

g and l

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