Now wait just one fucking minute...............  

HOTNBOTHERED0414 48F
6876 posts
3/29/2006 11:17 pm

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3/31/2006 8:51 pm

Now wait just one fucking minute...............

Where the hell did the idea come into peoples heads that this site is made up of mainly, jobless housewives and stay at home moms?

And where the fuck did the idea come from that the stay at home mom has more time on hers hands during the day to sit at home and play on the computer?

Not to far back, I was a stay at home mom, and let me fucking tell you, it is a 24 hour a day job, not 8 little hours like a job outside of the home, 20 fuckin 4 hours a day. And right now I would not trade a stay at home mom for nuthin! I had 4 kids at home, I didn't even get to take a piss by myself,let alone sit on a computer all day! I give the ladies on here that are stay at home moms right now thier props!

The only ones I think that have it harder then the stay at home moms are those of us who were single moms who had to work more then one job to raise our kids.

And any single chick who is workin one job and has no kids who says they have it harder then the stay at home mom, get a fucking clue, you don't know shit!

Even right now I work a full 8 hour job, and do EVERYTHING in my home. Hubby, goes to work, period! I do it all, and after all my daily runnin and workin, I am a blogging whore! And I would still say I have it way easier then my friends who are stay at home moms!

Ok, my ranting is over! 007 love ya sis!

H~N~B And credit for this post goes to AUNT FLO!


help4meplease 39M

3/30/2006 12:22 am

Oh yes... 2 week ago I try to keep contact those pretty girl... Now I want to see those 40~50 or even 60 yrs old man's blog... don't you think those white hair / retired old man and fatty small thing with a big beer belly look so funny?
Keep the good work... single mom...


007sexy40plus 52F  
7603 posts
3/30/2006 6:26 am

I have a doctors appointment this morning but when I return I am going to touch base on this topic. IT MAY BE A LONG POST. See ya soon. Love ya girl!

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"


HOTNBOTHERED0414 replies on 3/30/2006 7:59 am:
LMAO, OK!

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
3/30/2006 8:38 am

You go girl! You definitly have it right here!


HOTNBOTHERED0414 replies on 3/30/2006 9:19 am:
The only thing missing, and it is not my norm. to do so, I left out the bloggers name and the post I seen it on.

007sexy40plus 52F  
7603 posts
3/30/2006 10:27 am

OK, I am back and ready to bust some balls, or boobs. LOL......

Directly out of high school I went to work. I held down that job with that company for 13 years. While at that job I got married to a son of a bitch, (he didn't work there)But nevertheless I ended up with him and we had two children. I continued to work my job take care of two children who were 15 months apart. I went home from work, cooked dinner, cared for two babies, cleaned the house and prepared for the next day at work. Not to mention laundry, middle of the night bottle feedings and diaper changes. Sometimes there were even sick children who only cried instead of sleeping.

After I got tired of being abused I left that son of a bitch and became a single mother of 2 young children, still had to work, still had to hire baby sitters to care for them so that I could make a living. Still had to go home and take care of things after dealing with a load of jackasses from my job. Mind you my job didn't consist of me sitting behind a desk I got paid for hard labor, I mean sweat blood and tears labor. Full of back aches, and headaches, during the winter months I was outside in the elements, during the summer months I was in the same elements mixed with other inconveniences.

After all the heart aches of dealing with life, and doing all the stressful duties of a job and raising two children I ended up getting married again and having a third child. During this time I managed to get my vocational certificate and become a licensed cosmetologist, then I managed to get my paralegal degree all while I sat on my no life ass. During this time I still had to raise three boys cook, clean, do doctor appt. for kids and myself, stay up all night sometimes just to make sure your sick child is okay. There are also times you have to be the doctor to your sick spouse. You have loads of laundry each week but you do a daily load of laundry to keep it from overflowing. In the morning I am up at 6am I take kids to school, I come home get my workout in, make four beds, cook dinner vacuum, do dishes after feeding 5, help with homework. listen to all the goings on of the day for other people. make sure baths are taking and clean clothes are ready for the new morning. Must do grocery shopping, when notes come home that there is a special event going on at school I must prepare for those. On days I have something planned and a sick child prevent me from going through with my plans, I feel bad but thats a part of parenting. thats part of blood sweat and tears of everyday life.

If I can have someone who would want to come to my house and do everything that I do everyday, they can have it. being a house wife, a full time mother ain't no fucking walk in the park. I learned to multitask when I got my degree. I learned how not to procrastinate.

Even now after all I do at home I am still wanting an outside job, I must be out of my mind to want that but I do. and if any single person could bring their happy asses here and do what I do in a day and still manage to get on-line to shoot the shit in the blogs, DESERVES A FUCKING MEDAL. Hell my friend with benefits is a single dad with a job and he manages to get on-line to talk to me and we manages to take a break for lunch and our sex sessions and still get through our days and nights just fine. Now that summer is almost on us. Its time I got back out to do yard work another fucking chore thrown in that MUST be done.

I am married I have a life, and I have a life because I am a mother. And if you don't know what it is to be a parent, walk a day in my fucking shoes and you will see that I have too much of a life.

BY THE WAY, SITTING ON MY ASS DON'T PAY THE MORTGAGE,(NOT RENT)MORTGAGE, OR PAY FOR THAT SUV AND INSURANCE THAT I DRIVE DAILY, HAVING NO LIFE SURE AS HELL CANT PAY FOR THE GAS THAT GOES IN THAT GUZZLER. SO I SAY I GOT A LIFE AND THEN SOME AND TO CARRY ON THE TASKS THAT I DO EVERYDAY, I CAN SAY ITS A DAMN GOOD ONE. NOT TO MENTION THE ACHES AND PAINS I GO THROUGH ALSO AND STILL MANAGE TO SURVIVE.

Sorry for such a long post dear, love ya for allowing me to say my piece.

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"


HOTNBOTHERED0414 replies on 3/30/2006 10:32 am:
Girl, I did this for you!

waerlookin4fun 51M/47F

3/30/2006 12:26 pm

I totally agree. Being a stay at home parent is hard as hell!!!!!!!!!!!!! 24/7. I also agree that being a single parent and working would be even harder. Last year I decided to homeschool my child. It's not something I would choose to do again. Trying to keep up with the house, laundry, dinner etc. and make sure he got all of his work done to be turned in each Friday........I'm surprised that I'm still relatively "sane" lol. So to all you stay at home parents and the single one's who work to support your children, you go.......and to all of the people out there who think we sit on our asses and don't do anything SCREW YOU!!!!!!!!!!

I sure wish I could be as articulate as 077


HOTNBOTHERED0414 replies on 3/31/2006 8:51 pm:
You said it good enough! ^5 to you!

mycin62 56F

3/30/2006 9:50 pm

I was a stay at home mom for 6 years and then I became a single mom. I didn't have time for anything, I didn't even own a computer until I married my second husband. I didnt' have IM on my computer until last year, after I found AdultFriendFinder.

I'll tell ya, being a stay at home mom was the hardest job I've ever done, and I have a pretty tough job now. Being a single mom wasn't any easier!!!

My hat is off to all the stay at home moms and single moms out there!!!

And to quote waerlookin4fun "and to all of the people out there who think we sit on our asses and don't do anything SCREW YOU!!!!!"


HOTNBOTHERED0414 replies on 3/31/2006 8:51 pm:
Amen, and ty for visiting!

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