Holy shit my monday sucked...........  

HOTNBOTHERED0414 47F
6876 posts
1/23/2006 9:39 pm

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Holy shit my monday sucked...........

Well I was waiting to see who was repacing ashley.
Well the girl showed up, and the boss sticks her with me to orientate.
And I get two halls, compared to my normal one.
WTF?
So I am getting to train someone who just became a CNA, a job she has never done,and they add more work for me?
So I am kinda pissed when I first hear of this. But wtf? I have to do it.
It really wasn't to bad. I just had her follow me. But I was wondering why I was training her on my hall, when she is going to be working another hall? But the big boss lady said she wanted me to train her.
And then the new girl asked the other staff if anyone would be able to pick her up for work during the week. And wtf, they all said they went the opposite directions. Now thats just crazy. She lives like 4 blocks from work, and no one could pick her up? So I am gonna be her ride.

And then I get home. My husband has this habit of parking in the middle of our two parking spaces, and leaving me to squeeze in. So I get int he house and ask him if he would mind if next time he pulled a little more over towards the shed.
And I get INSTANT ASSHOLE.
"why, you had enough room,I could pull a mac truck in there, you got out the car didn't you, so there was enough room." And then I hear...... " DING,DING,DING, LET THE FIGHTS BEGIN"
It is because I asked,if anyone else was to ask him, it would be a perfectly fine request. So I tell him, I will start parking out front. So then he says I am being a smart ass, and a bitch. WTF?
He has never hit me, but because he is 6'4" and 280 pounds, he tries to scare me. He grabbed my shirt collar and was screaming in my face. Or shoving his forhead against mine screaming at me.
But I told him I was done!!! If any part of his body touched any part of mine again, I was gone.
And at this point, I have no problems walking out........

HOTNBOTHERED0414


PrincessKarma 44F
6188 posts
1/23/2006 10:06 pm

You [should walk out, he's shown he's not above shaking you around. He'll likely hit you next time. YOU DESERVE BETTER.

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma


rm_art_persists 52M
1789 posts
1/23/2006 10:13 pm

time to go...


HOTNBOTHERED0414 47F

1/23/2006 10:18 pm

PrincessKarma--Been there, done that with my ex. The first and last mistake a man could make is hitting the "GROWN UP" me now....


Sorceror07 55M

1/23/2006 10:59 pm

and call the abuse hotline too!

...That which does not kill me merely pisses me off!...


WellhungTrigger 44M
282 posts
1/23/2006 11:06 pm

You don't need that shit. Dump that asshole and find someone who can park.


oldman1776 79M
3164 posts
1/23/2006 11:23 pm

walk out know while you still can.


HOTNBOTHERED0414 47F

1/24/2006 12:15 am

I want to thank you all for your post and concern. But if you visit my blog often, ya know I can be a real bitch,and I can hold my own. Trust me on this one, if it came to him throwin down on me, I for sure would still be able to walk. The poor bastard got with me after a bad abusive relationship, so let me tell ya, this bitch can take a punch and give one right back!!! I love you all, and thank you again.


mackjohnny69 60M

1/24/2006 7:44 am

You did the right thing by walking away. We all have bad days, you just had one. and who knows he may of had one too.But no means should a man hit a woman or man handle her. If he needs to hit some thing go outside and hit a tree.Give yourselfs afew days to cool down and talk about it and tell him how you feel. If he doesn't respect your feelings on that or another fight breaks out because of that , get up and leave. Go to a friends house or a neigbor house and do that you have to do (domestic abuse).
Hope all works out for you.

your friend -- JOHNNY


rm_dragonheat23 52M
1158 posts
1/24/2006 11:11 am

H-N-B.
No human being should ever have to endure being struck. No living creature should even be struck in anger. When it came to punishing my children, I would make sure that I had calmed down before I even gave them a spanking. They did (do) get spanking occasionally, but more often than not I realize that it really isn’t necessary.
I was physically abused by my ex-wife. Anytime I pissed her off her would punch, kick scratch and try to hurt me. I am not a little guy who had to take the abuse. I’m six foot tall, well built and could have easily sent her to the hospital had I chosen. She was not a small girl either and she really hurt me several times. Once she hit me in the face and knocked me out. I never hit her back and she knew that I wouldn’t. All I could do was try to get as far from her as quickly as possible. Eventually I got far enough that I filed for divorce.
Do what you have to. Listen to your heart and never accept abuse when you have the power to effect a change.


zx9racer 45M

1/24/2006 11:22 am

WOW H-N-B... all that over a parking spot.. I would defintely say it is time to go... There is no reason what so ever to stay... be safe..


HOTNBOTHERED0414 47F

1/24/2006 9:46 pm

Well I got an "Im sorry" today, and an offer to bring me supper to work. And his truck was parked in his spot. So all is ok,I guess


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