Seriously being *too big is a waste*  

Gtrman247 46M
19 posts
12/1/2005 5:17 am

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Seriously being *too big is a waste*

I am not complaining or not bragging.. I am being serious.. I was in a relationship in the past, and we became very intimate. When the time came to where we thought sex was right, see was concern about the size of my penis. Now, of course on the male side of thought.. *the trumpets play in the background and the ego swells* but deep inside I was worry about it and deeply concern.. That day we decided to have sex but oral and by masturbation. I, being young at the time try to find out what is *normal and what is not* after research (through medical journals and the internet)I was above normal and that was fine to medical standards.. so I was relieved to the news.
Over time with a new relationship and even through marriage this was brought up again. So the complex began in my head.. even til this day.. I began to believe that being to big is a waste.. Of course it is about how to use effectively is a key role.. but when you (female) are frighten right before penetration. Makes you wonder over time. I became a gentle and multiple position kind of guy.. To insure pleasure to my partner.. (well because I did not want to hurt my partner is any shape or form!)
Oh well in ways I became a better lover being self-conscious to myself. Bigger does not mean better!

normal size 5-7 from base to tip
Gtrman247 size 11 1\8 from base to tip.

SaucyNSassy 40F

12/1/2005 6:48 am

I can't imagine why a woman would seriously be hesitant to have sex with you. A man who has a small dick is just NOT as much fun to have sex with. You can't truly enjoy riding him bc his dick just DOESNT reach the right places that way. You are stuck w/ doggy style "hoping" that he can still hit the spot and make you feel good. I guess I shouldnt say stuck w/ doggystyle...It is one of my favorite positions. I just like choices. A man who is well endowed can throw you up against the wall and give you the best fucking of your life. A man who is unfortunately lacking... can't do that. I can get all the arguments in the world to this comment but fact is Size DOES matter... You can try to sugarcoat it for the guys who aren't packin' but why bother? They know its little, you know its little.
When I first slide my hand over a mans cock in his jeans/slacks before I even take off his clothes if I feel a big cock, I get excited. I'm like a kid at Christmas, I can't wait to unzip the package and open my present. I hear the angels sing when I take it out and that beautiful, large cock is just there for me waiting to be touched, stroked, licked and sucked. I will take it in my mouth as far as I possibly can, simply because I can NOT get enough of it. I'll just reiterate my point b/c obviously I may never shut up... I love big cocks and if you were here, I wouldn't be one bit afraid of I wouldn't be able to control my excitement. You realize I am going to have to blog about this subject Thanks for the inspiration.

sexy_elegance 53M/52F
2 posts
12/1/2005 8:45 am

IT DEPENDS...It's true, being big is certainly not a waste!...a big cock can be a beautiful thing. There's lots you can do with it, like being lined up against a wall and getting fucked...when a small guy just can't reach. But, to me, it's more about the guy you're bed, there's plenty that all men can do, if they care, if they have an imagination. It's not simply about getting lined up and fucked. Just in general, i'm amazed at other women who have these consuming fantasies, about cocks disassociated from the man they'll be with, and especially about "black men", like they're some kind of icon, i think it really degrades us. I love getting luv-fucked...a certain artistry of touch and feeling, of mind and body. Now if the guy has a huge cock, that's wonderful! So it depends on the woman, too, i guess, and her fantasies. If i wanted a cock without a mind or soul, i'd just use my dildo.

rm_lickmepretty 52F
851 posts
12/1/2005 10:06 am

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Gtrman247 46M

12/1/2005 1:17 pm

thank for the read and thoughts.. I didn't think that the reading would become an inspiration for you.. (LO but again. I have become a better person I guess from this. I normally don't think about sex unless that time is right.. with a occsically slip here and there of thoughts.. But (got side tracked). I enjoy the partner more because of the little things that can be archived during sex..

Gtrman247 46M

12/1/2005 1:22 pm

and yes to your comment.. It is up to the man. From reading and experimenting, I found out that guys can talk a lot of crap about your size and then hear from the female partner the next day that he was asleep faster that night So I tried hard to even avoid that situation! eat right and exercise from head to toe.. At least the comment should hope to be that, I enjoyed my time with you hope to hear from you or see you again,"
Again you (meaning me) hope..


Thanks again for your thoughts and comments..

sexy_elegance 53M/52F
2 posts
12/1/2005 1:56 pm

My suggestion: Eat lots of pineapple, strawberries and fruit, all day and night long, no meat...cum tastes so much sweeter that way~!

Gtrman247 46M

12/1/2005 7:37 pm

I knew about the pineapple.. but strawberries? I thought kiwi and cranberries as well..
Hey I love fruit so I should not have a problem. Thank you for the advice!


freestudent79 39F
1 post
12/2/2005 8:32 am

I absolutely LOVE big dicks, I am so sorry to hear about your complex though. The good thing is you know how to work it now, so maybe its about finding the right woman.

Gtrman247 46M

12/3/2005 2:28 am

thank you for your response.. and I hope so too.. that is why I am on here. I am not the "typical guy" I value friendships and people. But when the ratio in her is 21:1.. lol
it will be awhile before someone emails me or calls. the best thing is that I am not ugly and in shape.

again thanks for your thoughts and response.

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