girlfriend get a grip  

Greekgirl4u06 40F
1676 posts
7/14/2006 9:57 am

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girlfriend get a grip

Im sure its no big secret that society for the most part places high esteem on "thin" people as opposed to what someone else may consider "overweight." I guess that is all fine and dandy, but what I just dont get, (lord someone help me out on this one please!) is why women who are blessed with NATURAL curves call themselves FAT?? Im talking the women who have those natural large breasts, with curvy hips and an ass to make any man weep---why do you all think you are fat? You should feel proud and count yourself lucky, cause someone like me who is pencil thin (hoping i will spread somewhere soon lol) can only dream of having those kinds of curves, if i want them im gonna have to go buy them! so ladies who are blessed with those curves and "big butts" realize at least this skinny chick (cause i cant speak for all of them) would love to have half of what you got!

digdug41 50M

7/14/2006 1:44 pm

Hey there as long as your not skinny enough to dodge rain in a thunderstorm dont fret I'm sure the fella's aint sayin no I dont want to go out with you so enjoy and I dunno do some kind of areobics or a lil weight trainingf to get you what you want no need to be plastique

roaming the cyber streets of blogland

Greekgirl4u06 replies on 7/14/2006 1:59 pm:
ive always thought about that, what you said about some kind of training, but i'd be worried i'd lose what little curves i got, lol...i agree with you, not really wanting any plastic parts, but sure am wishing like hell i will wake up one day and have some double D's sittin up there! oh, and a nice ghetto bootie! lol

tec2822 48M

7/14/2006 3:38 pm

Stop I don't know you and you don't know me but listing. Your man love's you and you have so many men that are on this site that dream of being with you. So if you want to train for you great but there is no reason for you to want need or dream of chancing a thing. Your perfict in your man's eyes what more of a gift would you want? And most men in here and on the street would say your pperfict if not close to it. Just a thought other woman have to buy part to get the same attention you get for who you are and how you look rite now.

Greekgirl4u06 replies on 7/14/2006 4:24 pm:
i thank you for saying so, but im just wondering why women that are naturally voluptuos confuse their curves with an "oh im so fat theory" thats what i dont understand.....thank you for posting!

dizzymorning 39M
2 posts
7/14/2006 6:57 pm

first of all u`r not so thin up THERE.i had the fortune to watch u on your cam the answer at your question ssems so easy to me:women has a natural insecure for their body and the modern society of consupmtion has taken advantage of this in an excellent`s so difficult to keep clean the inner mirror

excuse me all for my aproximate english


7/15/2006 12:47 am

Tell 'em Goddess!!! lol I've been fortunate enough to have dated a few ladies that are curvy and every one complains of being fat. Ladies are paying too much attention to pop culture B.S., and not listening to the men (and women) around them.Stand a curvy lady next to one of these bulemia victims and see who 95/100 men choose.( By the way, your Greek body is thin, but beautifully proportioned.) There's a difference between thin and sickly. Very few men like skeletal women.

Bronzehalo 2007

Greekgirl4u06 replies on 7/15/2006 9:12 am:
my point exactly, they need to be proud of what god blessed them with!

ZZ_Todd 60M

7/16/2006 7:15 pm

Well, it's like my Daddy used to tell my brother and me:
"The softer the cushion, the easier the pushin'!" and then he'd goose Mom's fine flanks as she cleared the dinner table.

Greekgirl4u06 replies on 7/16/2006 7:58 pm:
i totally agree with you!!

builder196078 57M

7/17/2006 11:37 am

Hey Greek girl, you need not worry about being too thin or being fat you are niether. Woman are beautiful in all shapes and sizes. I wait for the day I can come out to the beach and play with you guys. I am over in Darlington. We will have to talk some more some time. E-mail me anytime.

Greekgirl4u06 replies on 7/18/2006 9:33 am:
yes we will!

SingleWarrior 53M

7/17/2006 2:52 pm

Interesting. I have an entry regarding ribs vs baby fat. Seems a few folks *are* are the same wave length about this type of issue

Greekgirl4u06 replies on 7/18/2006 9:33 am:
glad others have the same point of view as i do, thanks for posting!

SingleWarrior 53M

7/20/2006 2:52 am

BTW, I just clicked the Most Popular on the main page. Guess who I saw?


rishm 60M
6 posts
7/20/2006 5:34 am

Don't change a thing beautiful! Your ass cheek would fit my hand perfectly and as far as I'm concerned any amount of breast that I cannot fit in my mouth is just extra.
You make me feel like hound dog on a hot day, my tongue hangs out so far when I see your pics!
I just wish society did not put the pressure that it does on rubenesque women. There is beauty in the female form, and that form comes on all shapes and sizes!

Murr1964 53M

7/20/2006 9:29 am

Those Curvey women that call themselves "FAT" do so because we live in a society that caters to the thin and Athletic types. Take TV Commercials for example. 99% of all Commercials on weight loss(And i've noticed a ton of them lately)Have these Full Figured women on them that don't really need to lose weight so women who are a bit heavier get the impression that they are "FAT" and that they need to be thin or Athletic to find a man. But thisis just my opinion and observation.

buckey5002 56M

7/20/2006 10:51 am

You are so right Greekgirl. I like curvy women, big breasts, curvy hips, some ass to grab on to. I see alot of times on here in profiles where women who I would consider "Ample" are listed as "Large". But, I have also seen women who are large or fat listed as "a little extra padding. While I admit I don't go for large women, Ample or Curvy is just fine with me.
And you are beautiful regardless of your size!

rm_islandG7 36F

7/20/2006 8:08 pm

im liking your BLOG alot and i guess we all have our INSECURITIES...

Greekgirl4u06 replies on 7/21/2006 8:25 am:
im glad you like

rm_Maxsys6 49M

7/23/2006 12:57 am

Hi Greekgirl, the hour glass shape is very sexy and women like Maryland Monroe and Liz Taylor and a few others got lucky in the gene pool give away. Now America has done a disservice to women, most mags push thin women to the point of anorexia, bole-mia and even death ( Karen Carpenter etc.) You go into the supper market, every mag has a beautiful women on the cover ,then down at the bottom of the cover are listed the words "diet" and "sex" all on the front page. With this kind of pressure I can see why women are the way they are, at least in the USA.

Now if we are speaking about you on the other hand, uh, you appear to have things well in control. Very attractive and sexy, every guys or gals fantasy. I would not change whatever you are doing to stay fit, if it is dancing, or weight training, card-io -sex? Keep doing it your ass is hot, legs are sexy, your hair is very sensual, should I go on? I think you see where I am going with this- self assurance and self esteem have alot to do with outward appearances.

Bye for now.....

Greekgirl4u06 replies on 7/23/2006 2:52 pm:
thanks hon, i love the marilyn monroe look myself, i cant believe it when i see girls that are size 1's, i wish more would accept that its ok to be normal weight or even somewhat overweight.

rm_PeanutJackie 37F
1286 posts
7/23/2006 12:33 pm

Hmmm, I see it's 99% men that have answered this entry, so I will post my opinion to try and even things out a little.

When I was young, I was always very very thin. I weighed 50lbs in 5th grade, and 110lbs at age 18. My chest was a 34B and I wore a size 5 pants. Three years later I gained OVER 50LBS when I was on the Depo-Provera birth control shot. My breasts went up to a size 38D, and I was in a size 16 pant. All I could think about was how badly I wished I could be small again. I used to get so many looks and compliments when I was small, and then once the weight came I was getting compliments from other people, but the previous compliments were basically taken back by those people because they thought I was fat. My highest weight was 193lbs back in April and I am down to almost 180lbs right now thanks to Weight Watchers.

When I joined this site, I was taken aback by how many men thought I was beautiful just the way I was. Let me tell you, it boosted my self-esteem so much. I was so greatful to this site just for that alone. (My self-esteem had been almost non-existant thanks to a jerk ex-boyfriend who told me that he didn't find me sexually attractive anymore since I had gained weight) Even at my heaviest I did not consider myself to be a BBW even though I was wearing plus size clothing. I think I had made a comment about being an "almost BBW" in the chatroom once, and man did I get shit from people saying things like, "you're nowhere near BBW!" and the like. I guess I'm blessed to be proportionate and not look my weight.

I don't call myself fat unless I'm really feeling down on myself. Usually I just consider myself to be thick in the right parts (well, except for my tummy lol). So basically, my curves are thanks to birth control. Oh, and these days, I never want to be back to stick thin again. I just want to be healthy and feel good about myself when I look in the mirror. Is that so much to ask??

"I am beautiful no matter what you say, words can't bring me down. So don't you bring me down today."

Greekgirl4u06 replies on 7/23/2006 2:53 pm:
no its not too much to ask, and thick is beautiful, ask any man

rm_Maxsys6 49M

7/25/2006 7:02 am

GreekGodess, you know what is really a turn off? Size zero! I do not know how chicks get into that frame of mind, I know what I said earlier about the magazines and stuff, but size Zeroooooo is way to small and very unhealthy. I would be afraid to touch a 1 or a Zero, I weight about 225,very lean, so I would be scared to engage in sex with a chick like that, might break her literally.


Greekgirl4u06 replies on 7/25/2006 12:11 pm:
exactly right, it is very unhealthy in my opinion, im a size 7 myself and some days i feel like im still too thin, so i dont even wanna know what a size 0 would feel like, no thanks.

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