The Time  

Gouchinho 44M
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10/26/2005 7:41 pm

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The Time

Everyone learns many things first hand. Many of these things can be taught by another person, rather than the sometimes long way of personal experience. A friend of mine once said (quoting I don't know who), "He who learns from his mistakes is not a dumb man. He who learns from others' mistakes is a wise man."

That is why I readily seek advice. I'm not too proud to ask for help when it comes to learning a better way of doing something (it's actually because I'm too lazy to do it first hand, but don't tell anyone).

And here is where I ask you all for help. I have a nephew for whom I have stepped into the roll of father for. My mother needs help raising him, my sister is useless, even though she lives with us, and her boyfriend is busy helping with their new child. Now, how do you make time for love, dates, sex, whatever.

I have some ideas in mind, but I need some tips on finding time for myself. I have a "guys night" on Wednesdays, but I'm frequently the one watching over him the rest of the week. When I'm not at work, that is.

I don't mean to sound whiney, or "I'll never get any, please help!" I'm just looking for input on more effectively managing my lovelife.

Any and all help would be appreciated.

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