Yeah Right! Easer Said Then Done.  

Goldenhairgodess 64F
471 posts
7/28/2005 5:48 am

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Yeah Right! Easer Said Then Done.

Well that same question just keeps popping up. At
first rather indirectly. "Sooooooo, have you had much luck at this web site?" (translation: "how many times have you got lucky").
I reply, "Well, yes I have met some people. Have developed some friendships."
"Well then, how many people have you met?" he asks. (translation: "how many times have you got lucky"). "Do you have any boyfriends I shoild be concerned about?" (translation:are you screwing around behind some one's back?).
When the same question comes back as "How many guys have you been with since starting?" I answer just as directly-"I will always be truthful to you, even if that means saying It is none of your business."
He replied "You are not very open talking about sex are you?" To which I respond, "I am an open book. I just will not answer a question that I would nerver ask a man to answer." That did finally hit home as he realized how unfair the question had been.

redmustang91 58M  
8924 posts
7/28/2005 8:01 am

Good answers. People are curious and that is fine. You decide how private or public you want to be about your sex life.

Goldenhairgodess 64F
396 posts
7/29/2005 6:44 am

Thanks Redmustang;
Actually, I could answer that question in part. And have in one post. But do not feel it is an appropriate question to ask anyone. But in failing to answer it, assumptions are made which are also unfair. I copied and pasted my answer here, for the record in hopes that those who are judgemental can come here for the answer and refrain from asking me directly.

Lets see, between 1966-1977 there were 2
between 1977-1993 there was 1
between 1993-2005 there was 0
That adds up to 3 over a span of 39 years.
From January 2005 to current is not relevent.
I have paid my dues and will not subject myself
to anyones judgement.

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