Will You Still Need Me?  

Goldenhairgodess 64F
471 posts
7/24/2005 2:39 pm

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Will You Still Need Me?

When I am 64?

It was an old Beatle Song, which spoke of the senior years . It came to mind as I
contemplated yet another date with a much younger guy. Where are the guys my age?

I suppose the strong and healthy ones are out dating the much younger ladies.
All I can say is, for their own sakes, the men had better find a Long Term Relationship before their health starts failing them. Once that happens it will be too late.

As for the younger men and older ladies, I have asked them why me? Why not someone closer
to your own age? The answers I received where varied. Many had their first sexual experience with an older lady to begin with, so it seems more natural to them. Others where put off by the crass language some younger ladies are using.
And some hoped to refine their sexual skills with a more experienced woman.

And there is also are the financial challenges of dating. They have not earned enough to
afford their own love nests. They live with their parents or with roommates. An older lady
usually has a home. An older lady is not likely to request a loan from them.

I have been told by some that it is because they so SEXY and HOT. And while it is possible to
look very good, I am not foolish enough to think I am better looking than when I was younger.

And then the most surprising to me was that the passion of an older lady was a real turn on.
Now I wouldn’t know about that, never having made love to a woman. But it would seem logical If older ladies make them feel good about them
selves then why not?

I was wondering how many other younger men could see their own motives amoung those given or it there is still more that have not been uncovered?


cajunpet 71M
1185 posts
7/24/2005 7:23 pm

I have not been with an older lady. Guess I never meet the right one to have a relationship with. Most of the ladies I have been with were 1 to 2 years younger than me.


Take care.
Keep On Blogging!!!! Have a great day.

Cajun Pet


rm_simmo19692
20 posts
7/24/2005 11:57 pm

i agree with yourself again.i think that younger guys are going for the experience and for a confidence booster.there is one point thou that i think you may have overlooked and that is maybe there are with a partner thats, how can i say?,abit shy in the bedroom department as that they are just fulfilling their own sexual desires.abit selfish i suppose but if they dont ask at home they wont get.do older women react in a more sensual way then the younger generation or not????maybe we need to put that theory to the test.and maybe thats another blog subject to put up???xxx


Goldenhairgodess 64F
396 posts
7/25/2005 6:15 am

Cajun Pet ♪;
You and I are basically from the same generation so I am not suprised by your answer. For me, both husbands were older. It is only since re-entering the social life in January 2005 that I have found this odd change of events which I am trying to understand.
simmo19692;
As for the younger generation, I think it is the hormonal changes that effect the degree inwhich older and younger ladies respond sexually. I was not that enthusiastic with the first husband, but craved it from the second. Was never orgasmic with either, but now I am. I am the same person in the same body, yet very different sexually. There is some social factors that come into play as well. I am not looking for a mate with which to have children. A LTR is a goal but not until I "kiss some frogs" to "find the prince". I am just looking for people open to the possibility of it and avoiding those who are dead set against LTL's. And those who are physically my equal rather then suffering serious health problems. And that seems to be the case with the younger guys.


Goldenhairgodess 64F
396 posts
7/25/2005 6:18 am

Cajun Pet ♪;
You and I are basically from the same generation so I am not suprised by your answer. For me, both husbands were older. It is only since re-entering the social life in January 2005 that I have found this odd change of events which I am trying to understand.

simmo19692;
As for the younger generation, I think it is the hormonal changes that effect the degree inwhich older and younger ladies respond sexually. I was not that enthusiastic with the first husband, but craved it from the second. Was never orgasmic with either, but now I am. I am the same person in the same body, yet very different sexually. There is some social factors that come into play as well. I am not looking for a mate with which to have children. A LTR is a goal but not until I "kiss some frogs" to "find the prince". I am just looking for people open to the possibility of it and avoiding those who are dead set against LTR's. And those who are physically my equal rather then suffering serious health problems. And that seems to be the case with the younger guys.


rm_FreeLove999 48F
16127 posts
7/28/2005 2:52 am

LOL! that song is my & my husband's "song", which we heard on the radio on our wedding day, and it has stuck ever since!



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Goldenhairgodess 64F
396 posts
7/28/2005 4:12 am

Welcome FreeLove;
I enjoyed your Blog very much. My first husband an I used the song
"We've Only Just Begun" by the Carpenters. Funny how those songs
bring memories flooding back into our minds.


rm_connor696 62M
834 posts
7/28/2005 7:31 am

You know, I kinda took umbrage at your remark about the healthy and strong men your age presumably hooking up with younger women. Does that imply that all men take younger women to be better "catches"? For one thing, if they are strong and healthy, they probably don't view women as catches in the first place. For another, a strong and healthy man probably doesn't need the prop of a younger partner to boost his image. Or so it seems to me.

Ironically, I have often thought to myself, where are the women my own age on this site? (On pessimistc days, I think that they have all dismissed men as incorrigible schmucks!)

XO,

connor


Goldenhairgodess 64F
396 posts
7/29/2005 6:33 am

Welcome Connor;
In checking your profile I see no reason why there may be any difficulty finding women in your age range. I saw also that you are a member of two groups. I did not check within those groups, but it said you have 0 posts. Most women like to be pursued more then pursuing so it could be you are not looking far enough or long enough.
Maybe by posting in groups will get you more exposure. The blogs help,
but who is going to just come accrss it? And also by posting you express your views and opinions. When someone agrees with you-you have a good chance to connect with that person. As for older guys & younger women-I think the answer is obvious- To quote Clinton "They do it because they can." They do view women as catches and it boosts their ego more than their image.


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