Sex vs. Making Love  

GeorgiaPeach071 46F
21 posts
9/13/2005 4:25 pm

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Sex vs. Making Love

Yes this is an adult site, however I'm interested in finding out if men perfer sex or making love to your mate?

ByteChaser2 54M

9/13/2005 4:57 pm

Just my own opinion here... And by no means indicative of anyone elses but...

It's been my experiance that sex is sex. There's a whole lot more to making love than just sex. Sex is an act - an intimate one but still nothing more than an activity.

Making love is a state of mind, it's a sense of well being, happiness, commonality. It's a bond between two people that, from time to time, involves sex but that is by no means bound to it.

As to your question though... If given a choice, I choose making love over sex any day.

Neither of which appears to be consistent in my current circumstances unfortunately

ByteChaser2 54M

9/13/2005 4:59 pm

Oh... and welcome to Blogville!

rm_666cycle 62M

9/13/2005 5:21 pm

Making love hands down!!! Sex has no emotional connection.... The emotional connections are what make making love to someone you care about so great.......

RailBaron2 55M

9/13/2005 5:30 pm

I prefer making love,My problem is finding someone.

rm_onexer 50M
1 post
9/13/2005 5:31 pm

sex sex sex sex sex

4thefunof2 59M
1 post
9/13/2005 5:51 pm

prefer making love

CharlesC71 46M

9/13/2005 5:59 pm

Depends on the mood. In general, I prefer the slower, sensual making love. I like it hot and when you kiss and you get so into it that it seems the whole world just dissappears...nothing but the two of us.
But once in a while I like to just throw her down, maybe bend her over a table or chair, and just fuck....hard and rough. pulling a little on her hair, smacking her ass a little ,talking dirty. Forcing her on her knees, making her give me oral....then when I am done, I just give her a hug and tell her I love her.

maybebaby33 46M/46F

9/13/2005 6:12 pm

"Making love" conjures up a lot of feelings for both men and women. "Sex" is simply the technical action that takes place between two or more people.

The emotional implications of "making love" can scare many men and some women, especially if they are not looking for committment. However, if the partners can somehow agree to their lack of true "love", and their desire to experience true sexual satisfaction, "making love" has got to be more desirable. "Making love", implies an incredible dedication between the partners to fully please and satisfy the other. Often times, the pace is slower and the orgasm(s) more intense.

"Sex", on the other hand, implies a quick, often one-sided encounter.

Yes, I believe "making love", is the way to go. And yes, believe it or not, this is the male of Maybebaby writing this.

Ecaffiene 53F

9/13/2005 6:25 pm

I`m pretty sure it all depends on who they are with.It`s just like you and me,sometimes we just want to screw someones brain out and other times its all nice and gentle

MidnightRider469 61
2 posts
9/13/2005 7:01 pm

personally i prefer to make love. But that is just the way i am.

Bikeaholic 39M
3 posts
9/13/2005 7:09 pm

Honestly it all depends on the mood I'm in.

Alias_46 58M

9/13/2005 7:49 pm

I've got to say it's interesting that out of 181 views no one has commented on your question yet! So let me be the first! Now, I'm not completely sure of your question but I will try to answer based on how I have understood the question.

I'm assuming that you are asking do men prefer having sex with their mate or making love to their mate. But you could also mean do men prefer just having sex with someone or making love to their mate. You see my dilemma!

Well, let me answer the second possibility first. Myself I would prefer making love to my mate than just having sex with someone. If I have a mate to make love to I would hope that this is someone I wish to be with and share my life with and that we would be able to make love whenever we both wanted. This would be far more preferable than my present situation where I do not have a mate to make love to, do not have someone to share my life with and very rarely have sex! Now if I were a real "lucky" and could have sex more often with different women that would be great! But, I think I would still hope to eventually meet someone that would become my mate and my lover.

Now for the way I think you actually meant the question... if I had a mate... and I have had a mate in the past... didn't want you to think I was a monk lurking on this site or something... although lately I am feeling rather - celebate!! Sorry - I digress! If I were in a relationship I would hope that we would be able to do both - have sex and make love! I find there are times that you are just rip roaring horny and just want to fuck! There are other times where you just feel very much in love with this naked person lying beside you and you want to feel as close as humanly possible... you want to touch each other in places where no one else touches you in the same loving way... you want to be inside each other or envelope each other... you want to become one! I have been in a situation where I was rip roaring horny and after tearing each others clothes off and fucking each others brains out... we fell into each others arms and made the sweetest love... mmmmm.

Yeah Yeah, I want my cake and eat it too! LOL!


rm_theslowgrind 55M

9/13/2005 8:15 pm

There is definatly a time and a place for sex and making love. But given the time and the place, I pwesonally prefer long love sessions. I like foreplay, afterplay, oh yes and inbetween play too. It is even fun to just take a break and get a meal with your lover, making sure the play continues during the meal. Then again I do not view sex as an act but as a total even.

trips 66M
1 post
9/13/2005 8:32 pm

there are times when we just want sex--no strings, no rings, just sex! And, then the carnal side moves over for the human side and we long to make love--to let our spirits and our souls 'mate' and recharge and re-assure us that we are loved! Yes, the same 'tools' are used for both Sex and Love Making, but the approach, the emotions, the Connections are totally different!

discreet33026 48M
15 posts
9/13/2005 8:51 pm

making love is good sometimes, but most of the times you want to have wild uninhibited sex to go beyond your capacity to feel...

blueyeboy666 36M

9/13/2005 9:54 pm

well sex needs are ranked low on Maslows pyramid of needs, just after the needs of food and shelter. That means many people make sex not love. Probalbly they wouldnt know the difference anyway. Love is not only phisical contact, it's the look in the eyes, the smell in the air, the rythmic breath. Sex is a bully thing but we all need it when there's no love there 4 us.

bozzman88 54M
4 posts
9/13/2005 10:17 pm

love making is always best,but first people need to realize that love is an emotion that grows between each party involved.the word love itself has been used so much its been cheepened,and confused for love takes time to mature anything else is just sex.

saddletrampsk 55F

9/13/2005 10:59 pm

I prefer sex..screwing..fucking..bumping uglies..doing the horizontal mambo..etc

mojojojo6669 50M
1 post
2/18/2006 9:08 pm

UR right...sometimes rough and tough...sometimes nice and slow...sexxxxy

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