Sex or No Sex  

GaryandLinda_03 51M/59F
14 posts
4/22/2006 3:15 am

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5/29/2006 6:07 pm

Sex or No Sex

You are horny and want sex with your partner. And besides you have a VERY strong sex drive and can have sex with him anytime, and your partner is aware of it. You haven't had sex with your partner for almost a week. You are waiting for him to come to bed. But instead of having sex with you, he goes straight to the bathroom, locks the door and you hear him jacking off by the moans! What would it make you feel like?
It doesn't bother me
It bothers me alot, (I'm mad all hell!)
Refrain sex next time he wants it
hand him box of kleenx instead and say "have at it!"
Go out and get drunk
Invite several people over for orgy, and leave him out!

rm_MustangD6644 53M
1031 posts
4/23/2006 7:29 pm

How about talking to him about the event? Do you ever initiate sex? Did he think you were tired and had gone to sleep? Does he feel pressured by you when you have sex together?

There are many questions that you both need to work on, in a calm and rational manner, and not when you are both tired or "toey".

Raising the matter on AdultFriendFinder first, wont help either.

Who decided to join AdultFriendFinder?

You both need to work on getting back in step sexually with each other before including others, because I would assume that your relationship with each other is the most important of all.


GaryandLinda_03 51M/59F

4/24/2006 3:12 pm

Well answering your was both. But about the question and the poll that I put on my was actually a friend who is a neighbor of mine who this happened to. I told her about this website and she wanted me to post the question to see what other people had to say about it. Both her and her boy friend are having problems at the time. I try to help her and cheer her up. I told her that I would post the question and make a poll on my blog. As you can see, I also put some funny questions as part of it. Thank you for your response, mustang, I appreciate your input.

EasesVowerMulch 57M

5/8/2006 11:48 am

You could suggest that she join this site and look for someone to give her what she desires.......Might I suggest that she could condider me!

GaryandLinda_03 51M/59F

5/29/2006 6:06 pm

Hey good idea..It might make her feel good to find other men or couples! Who knows she might even love it! Thanks for the suggestion!

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