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FunTimes4College 30M
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1/20/2006 11:33 pm

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7/27/2006 8:05 am

new here

ive only been a member for a few days here and i am seriously considering becoming a member...
Do you have any advice on whether it is worth it or not? I saw a lot of reviews saying the site makes up people to try and convince people to buy memberships. Has anyone here expierienced something similar to this?

Any women in the area of berks county montgomery county that are interested in talking further feel free to message me or leave comments here.

Thanks for your time!

sassybelle21 34F  
13313 posts
1/21/2006 5:28 am

Well if you want to know whether it's really worth it or not, start with one month of silver membership first. If you're happy with it then continue with a few months of silver again and then proceed to gold once you are completely sure that it's worth your money.

FunTimes4College 30M

1/21/2006 4:48 pm

I was considering that. I just don't have a credit card so i would have to pay with a money order. Has anyone else paid that way? Thank you for your comment!


1/30/2006 7:42 pm

If I did pay I would also use a money order. There should be very little risk in doing that.

So far I've stayed standard and mostly been alright with it. I've mainly also stuck to geting to know other bloggers. There may be a few fake bloggers but I think if there are they are mostly a joke or are "shill members" that people might be creating so that they can weirdly respond to their own blog.

In the profiles I'm usually suspicious of photos people use that look way too professional to spot potential fakes. They'll sound too good to be true and will say stuff that they think you'd want to hear.

The one thing I would really like though (this is pretty obvious) is to be able to look at any profile I wanted. There are not too many I'm really interested in but it would still be nice to be able to look and then to send them a not if you wanted.

Another thing that is true around here is that the M to F ratios are really stacked in favor of the women. So most women who put a nice picture on their profile get totally bombarded with emails. And we are talking some serious overload here. So consequently they really respond to very few.

I know a few blogger girls who said that it became so annoying to them that they usually keep their profiles turned off entirely and just meet guys through blogging. Because through a good blog you can really get to know a person far better than you can with a simple profile.

And in my profile I also tell women to read some in my blog before contacting me so that they can get a much better idea of who I really am

Anyways I'd say that Sassy's idea is quite a good one that I might also do myself.



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